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🌼for girl🌼 You are just leaving the class when you bump into someone. As you look up,you meet the spell binding blue eyes of Edwin(replace the eye colour and name to that of your crush😍). Your brain is slowly processing the situation (Edwin is standing in front of you,his eyes sweeping down your body). I mean Edwin the popular guy,the every girls dream man. You think you are dreaming too.
"Hi Nissy " he says (replace the name with yours). Your legs are giving up,did Edwin just call my name??😵 You didn't think he knew that you existed. You soon see a smile forming on his red cruelly sensuous lips and you realise that you haven't answered yet😜
"Hey" that all your mouth can pronounce at the moment
"Will you mind coming to my party too night?" He pursues😨
You want to scream yes but your voice seems to fail you at the moment.'Nissy breath' your brain exclaims.
"Look my parents aren't home and the liquor bar is open" he says with a wink.😉 It comes like a revelation😰. Edwin is flirting with you. You know he is the heart breaker bad guy and you are a Jesus freak but still......😷😶 No need to ask mum or dad,you know the big fat NO will prevail. You don't know if YOU ARE READY but Edwin is waiting for your answer. What do you say???😲
⚽ boys ⚽
You are the normal Christian guy no one notices,😒 the backseat guy,😪you can't even remember when last you heard an "I love you"😛. Well all that was until the chemistry teacher pairs you up with Becky😎. The pretty 'Victorian secret model,the living barbie girl' and then BAM!! You discover she has a crush on you,I mean U! of all boys. Your friends comment on how lucky you are but deep inside you know she is the 'bad girl type'. But then we are talking of Becky,that girl with a French guitar body shape every guy wants to lay hands on. Now you are puzzled,am I ready??what wil you do??🙇😓
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______ 🙌 Welcome beloved,this is our topic of today. 'Boy friend/girl friend,am I ready?. Everyone wants to be loved,have that special boy or girl is a normal feeling(as desciples of Christ,the bible says Jehovah is a God of love ). Before being Christians,we are all humans. You don't want to be left out when your friends tell you about their amazing dates during the weekend while you slept home hugging your pillow? Or that strange feeling you have when you see a girl and boy walk hand in hand in the corridors and you are like 'lord why me?',or that odd moment at the cinema when everyone is paired and you realise how single your singleness is? Well good news,we are two now.😁 Have you ever heard about the saying 'In Rome,do as the Romans do',well am totally against it. We should not just follow pagans in what they do or do this and that just because they did so. We have to use our spiritual Christ lenses and judge. Am I ready ready to have a boyfriend/girlfriend??
🌌Question one: why do you want a bf/gf??🌌
You,yes you!the guy reading this. What is your reason for wanting to go out with that girl you have in mind? Are you just egoistic and you think 'well am a guy,she is a girl so why not fool arround' or you just want to hold her up as the millionth trophee among your friends?? This superficial reason should not be that of a child of God. If you are dating a girl with no hopes or intention of getting married then you are not different from a kid who dumps his old toys when he finds new ones. If you continue with that,destruction awaits you and 'as you make your bed,so shall you lie on it' To know if you are READY to date,your reason must be genuine(love,honesty etc) or else you are still a kid so keep quite. Will you like if someone played with your feelings? It is not funny when a partner is serious and the other is a joke.
You this girl! If you don't love that guy then don't date him and if you are ,then let him go.final! God created partners for us all like he did from Adam and Eve so stop waisting that boy or girl's time. After all,when you finally meet the right person,you will thank God it didn't work out with anyone else.
🌌 Question two: How old are you🌌
Come back here,don't roll down or skip this😕. Though there is not a specific age to start loving someone ,you have to be mature enough. If someone had told me this when I was 11,it would have changed my life alot😉. According to you,at which age do you think one should involve in bf/gf issues?(please comment down) okay thanks. Now ask your parents and see what they say(not compulsory, just for those who can ask,don't go get a black eye if you have parents with twisted minds like mine). You shouldn't rush into things you know nothing about yet,you should be mature enough to make right decisions. Having a boy friend when you are not emotionally stable might have ehm 'bad' consequences. Don't feel you have to copy your friends or others. Remember we are diamonds amongst stones. Read Roman 12 verse 2.
🌌Question three: what about sex?🌌 Okay here is a delicate issue and many wil have different point of views but you are free to do so. So maybe you want to have a bf/gf just for that reason and you are surely thinking ' well let me hear from Nissy' but sweet heart I wouldn't explain that to you now.I will develope it as a theme in another chapter but if you are in a hurry to know what does the bible say about sex before marriage then read 1 Corinthian's 6verse18. If even after that you think you are young and it is normal,that's what all youths do ,read Ecclesiastes 11 verse 10 and more to that remember we are Christians meaning Christ like (2 peter 1 verse 5 & 6). So after all the reading,use the free mind God gave you and make the right choices.
🌈conclusion🌈
Hope this chapter helped someone. Turn to proverbs 14 verse 15. Reflect Christ in all you do.
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