Chapter 1 Step 1 Love Thyself

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Chapter 1

Step 1

Love Thyself

Love is divine

Love is magic

Love is timeless possession.

We all know how much love is important in our lives.

From the caress of a mother to caveman protectiveness of a father

From the concern of a brother to bridal kiss of a couple

From hug from a friend to cuddle to a beloved pet

Each and very emotion of love is priceless.

But the most important person who needs and deserves your love is amicably forgotten.

And that is YOU

How often we nag our self, curse our self?

I ain't that lucky....

I am fat....

I can never be successful....

My nose is out of shape...

My belly fat urrggghhh'....

I am born with a jinx....

The list might get endless.

And I guess all of us have something or other to curse in our being.

So the first step in your personality enhancement, the alpha of all the rituals, the most important aspect of your being is 'Love For The Self'

Love is accepting the former with all the flaws and blessings

Love is being non judgmental

Love is loving unconditionally.

How many of us want ourselves to be loved?

How many do get the true love?

So if you really want to be loved than let us learn to love our self.

When we go to shop for a gift for our loved one we go for the thing we like or love the most.

Precisely when you expect the former one to love you or like you the most important criteria would be you should totally love and like yourself.

Being 'Loved' is one of the best feelings of the universe but it implies the moral responsibility of loving our self first.

So guys Love Thyself

Exercise:

Do's

* Each day when you start in the morning look at your self in the full sized mirror and open your heart, mean it as you say it to your reflection, to your true self "I Love you"

Repeat it for five times.

* On any time in a day sit still in a comfortable position. Close your eyes. Forget all the stress and worries. I call this meditation, which is again a natural healer, and say at least ten positive things about yourself.

It will hardly take few minutes but you'll be rejuvenated.

Dont's

* There are millions and billions of people in the universe and I can bet on my own dead body there would be 70% of them who do not like you and only 20% of them would be positive about you. Rest 10% wouldn't be bothered about your existence.

So please ignore what others think about you.

What matters the most is what the person standing in front of the mirror thinks about you.

What matters is your love for your own self

Facts:

One of my preliminary clients and a good friend of mine Saasha [name changed] was bullied by her siblings and cousins throughout her life about her unusually thick nose and plump lips.

Her self-esteem had become so low that she actually started believing in them and was determined that she is an ugly looking girl.

She found the fact of loving one self stupid but still she trusted me and went with the flow.

Within couple of days and repeated exercises above in which she stated how perfect her figure is and how she'd been an A grade student through out her life, a positive energy was developed in her.

She came dancing and jumping to me with joy on the third day when one of the renowned designers had personally come up to her and complimented her figure.

Soon her love for herself took her to new edges.

She is now a popular socialite, runs a cosmetic business on her own and most important she is happy:)

Conclusion:

 Love Thyself.

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