Tips to Being A Girl

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Drama is something lots of people face but girls really love to create drama. Why? I don't know, maybe it's scientific or maybe we are just taught from when we are little that, girls play head games and create drama, so we think that we have to do that too, because we are a girl. Either way it seems to happen a lot, and you need to find some way to deal with it. I think there 3 main ways that people use: ( I think you should start with 3 then try 2 then 1)

1. Fight (fire with fire)- revenge, making their life as bad as they made yours

2. Run/let it happen- not doing anything to stop it, simply forgetting or running away from the drama

3. Trying to solve it- they stop the drama, and do nothing else, they do not run or seek revenge

You can chose which ever way, depending on the situation all will work

1. Could work against someone who is less aggressive, they may have thought you were weak but the revenge would show you weren't

2. Could work with someone who isn't creating drama because they hate you, but because they like to bully. They may think victim d was gone and they just have to find a new one.

3. Could work with someone who doesn't fit under the other two categories.

How to:

1. Whatever they do to you, you do in return, I suggest before doing this you should try #3 or letting them know you don't like what they are doing and you will be sure that they stop.

2. Forget about, try to find new friends, or people to replace the poisonous ones( drama makers ), remove your self from whoever is hurting you. (Try #3 first tho)

3. Talk to friends, or whoever you trust, don't be rude, just say that you think blah blah blah doesn't like you and they want to hurt you or at least piss you off, talk to them directly let them know you want it stopped. Be careful and not overly aggressive or passive.

How to deal with it emotionally:

Don't let it get to you. Maybe read inspiring things like:

Whether you believe in a religion or not you have to believe in you, you have to believe that you exist, that you breath. You got to believe that you can get through it no matter how big or how small because you have a story and a destination. You are a map, and your life is unrolling it, and somewhere your going to find the x. There may be some fake x's along the way but nothing with a big reward is easy. Whatever you do you just have to keep following and unrolling that map. And people will get in the way whether it's for better or worse and you have to decide if your going to take them on the journey with you or if your going to leave them on the side of the road. Your life is this big journey for your x, with bumps and turns and forks, and ink smudges, but you don't know what that x is.

#deep

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