When you look in the mirror whilst trying on certain clothes and the sudden realisation that you don't feel okay about how that one thing doesn't look right..I would say it gives you motivation to change.
You start solving the problem and finally get to where you've always thought of being but then that bubble of excitement which makes you feel on top of world bursts.
Why?
Because the guy(or girl) you like has a type. Of course it's their preference..I understand, however it can make you feel so shit. You think,
'Wow, is that why they don't like me?'
Surely someone should like you for your personality and not looks but let's be real, some people only say personality so they don't seem bad. Therefore, I think that's the reason why I never show off my body on social media (mostly because I'm insecure) but I want someone to take a like in my personality first and be able to know my mind and the way I look at certain things and whether they liked my body or not shouldn't matter because they've fallen for my mindset...right?
-wise words of the day,
If your mce(or wce) doesn't like you the way you are and you have to go out of your way to change your appearance for them.
Rethink who you're with and then decide whether you want to leave.
