(I'm sorry if that offends anyone I'm just trying to add humor to a shitty situation and sometimes you just gotta learn to laugh about things)
Passing Tips:
-if you can cut your hair (get them to square the edges masc as hell)
-if you wear flannels unbutton them and put a t-shirt underneath it'll hide curves and the t-shirt thing is masc
-buy clothes from the guys section sounds basic but the way clothes are cut it's better
-the shirts that have tight sleeves and make your biceps look bigger go a long way
-holes in the jeans, yes
-if you wear boxers pull your jeans just to the point where the top part is uncovered where the brand is even if your shirt covers it the jeans at that point will compress your hips and make them look like they aren't there
-socks that go up mid calf if you wear shorts or under pants
-JOGGERS
-button up shirts short sleeved
-if you wear dresses unless you pass insanely well it won't work so if you're trying to pass stay away from dresses
-packing (there will be a whole segment on this)
-binding (safety tips will have a segment as well)
-masc jewelry
-darker colors
-slightly too big clothes not huge but just a bit
-hoodies if you can't bind but if it's hot be careful
REMINDER:
Being trans can get hot layers happen a lot and it sucks but, stay cool. Ice packs under shirts yes. Water stay hydrated.
Packing:
So there's a lot of different ways to pack if you can purchase a packer:
-mr.limpy ($12 I think it's cheap for a packer)
-STPs -stand-to-pee (More expensive $50-$200)
There's a bunch more if you look them up but if you can't socks rolled up work just make sure it looks natural okay don't overcompensate. If you're a 5'1" dude you probably won't have a 9" dick sorry. Just be realistic find a trusted friend send them a pic of it in your pants or send me one and I'll be able to tell you if it's like unrealistic.
Ideas for homemade ones:
-Youtube it bro
-socks
-pantyhose/sock/thing
-really just youtube it
Binding:
So a big issue with binding is safety. A lot of people get heat stroke and hurt their ribs tons of things literally it's the worst thing ever. (not really just like super dangerous)
Good binding companies:
-gc2b ($30-$35 depending on size) {ofc}
-trans tape (I don't know the cost but more discrete) (use code arden for 10% off or something like that)
-there are a few other namebrands that are good but no ace bandages no
Make sure you take breaks and don't sleep in it. 8 hours max.
Acting masc.:
-try to lower voice but not like you're trying like don't go overboard or it's obvious
-walk with a wider stance
-don't lean to one side like don't cock your hip out
-stand evenly on both feet
-manspread
-lean back in your chair like you don't care
-act a little bit arrogant but not like a dick
COMMENT ANY OTHER PASSING TIPS IF THEY'RE SAFE
love you, fuckimaguy
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Dysphoria
RandomThis will be the chronicles of my life and dealing with my own dysphoria. Trust me there's a lot of it and I'll post updates about things I'm doing to pass and how I'm achieving those things. It just sucks living like this but that'll definitely com...
