UM(1) Creative Writing Club (Activity)

FEMI

Have u got lost in someone so much thar u can't find any piece of real you.?
Have u cared for someone so deeply that you don't get enough time even to think about  yourself.
Then, sorry to say that.
U're getting lost gradually..
Is it worth to be like that? Well. It's up to you.  The most important thing is you need to be satisfied for being like that. We all let ourselves do everything how hard it takes us or even if it can destroy our true personality for someone we love. Because we ourselves are so pleased with that.  And I don't mean to everyone because if everyone's like that there would be no self-loved person.
""Do I lose if I change ourselves for someone?
Do I overreactive if I talk to him?
Should I spend the whole day by texting and waiting for his reply the whole day without doing something special for me?''
Well, these are the question we don't normally ask ourselves or forget to ask when we're so lost because at that time, we automatically believe that doing everything to be accepted by someone is worth . We expect so much so could get hurt so easily. And unfortunately when he or she didn't accept us and by that time, we feel we had been spending on something useless for the whole life because we have been getting into them for so long. Some regret for spending so much time on someone when they realise there's nothing to get back. But some angelic ones keep attached to them which even make them so blind to see somebody else.
So here what I'm trying to say is
" Can we get attached to someone without getting lost in them?  Can we give love and support to them without getting separted for our some life goals. Well, we can. 
The very first rule is
" Just try to realise that every scar you got physically on your body, only your own skin needs to be contracted to get healed , so how good analgesic is or how skilful your doctor, without any your body healing system, you would continuously get bleeding. So never forget about yourself and your own life. Self-love is first.
The book you love and which suits you is more important than several books which are your lover's taste. Find some other things else you love not to wish for him all the time.

The second rule we must follow is to expect leass and less, sometimes nothing at all. Cauz as we know, expectation could hurt us even more than our love.

And here's some more tips. If...only if.. the things won't actually come to you as you expect..
Don't get spent your time on the wrong ones to heal your scar. It's like spending money on the wrong therapy uselessly. And believe me . You would make your scar worse. Do something you love instead and Spend on it till you forget what had happened to you.
Prepare yourself and your heart  the best when another right time comes to you. And please keep on your mind that you are not the only one who feel this way.