Relationships.

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Ok, so if you do not know what an empath is, look it up or ask me and I'll try my best to explain. 


Alright. Being an Empath, a relationship can be one of the scariest things for me. And yes, that sounds crazy. You're probably (if you aren't an empath) thinking "what? how? You know when they lie and you always know if they are faking their love.. how can that be bad?" 

Ok well, let me break this down for ya. Considering I literally feel other peoples emotions, I'm afraid of dating people because I'm scared that I will end up not being able to depict whether what I'm feeling is real or not. Meaning I sometimes have issues figuring out if I actually like someone or if I am feeling their emotions towards me.

Not to mention in a relationship, I feel like they won't understand me. For instance sometimes I'm angry or depressed for literally no reason, which is a result of being around all the mixed up energies throughout the day at school. And if I do tell them that I'm an empath, Do they believe me? Would they care? Would they think I'm crazy? It's very stressful for me and I don't know if it's just me or what but man I'm always terrified of getting into a relationship. 

Now the fun part. Actually being in the relationship. 

Ok, so this is interesting to me. Because it's actaully kind of funny to look at your significant other and just know that somethings off, and then just say "Hey whats wrong?" and them give you the face (empaths you know the one) where they pretend they have no clue what you're talking about and swear up and down, "oh nothing why would you think something was wrong?" or the classic "oh im just tired" Because then I can look at them and keep pushing them, saying I know better and that they aren't just tired. Now of course you shouldn't push too hard, but just enough. 

It's great to tell if someone is cheating early too. Or if they are just downright hiding something at all. I can always tell (at least almost always) if someone is lying or hiding something from me.

But, overall, me being in a relationship is basically the same as anybody else, the only difference is that I'm more emotional and constantly stress about every little thing. 

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