my coming out to my father

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i live with my father even if im an adult now. we take care of each other. i was born as a boy, but since my childhood i also felt like a girl. and i always loved both girl and boys (cis or not).

so in high shcool (last year), i was bullied. i started talking to people on internet. after some time i met a guy and i fell in love with him. we managed to see each other once or twice, because he lived in a town close to mine. its here that i decided to tell my father about my bisexuality.

i choose to tell him a morning. i prepared the breakfast and he was on a good mood so i told myself it was the right time, even if i hesitated. i could barely choose my words but i was finally able to explain him.

he said that he loved me no matter what and that the only thing he cared about was that i was with someone good.

this boy helped me to face the bullying, but we broke 1 year after for some reason.

i didn't tell my father about the fact that i feel both male, female, or none of those genders. in my opinion it doesn't change really much my behavior. i know it has more impact on other people but really for me no. So i feel like it's not useful to tell him.

and you, what do you think about it? :-)

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