Magical Girl Subliminal Journal

[16#] Unnecessary thingy [#16]

  So...
    Nothing magical girl related at the moment, but I'm still making another F-Shift chapter that shows the rest I planned out cause I'M TOO LAZY TO MAKE CHAPTERS FOR EACH OF THEM!!

    I do consider myself as a "people pleaser"...

NOW I'LL SEE IF THAT'S TRUE!!!

https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2017/08/19/10-signs-youre-trying-too-hard-to-please-everyone/#74e6f7c92c27

also...

YA'LL DON'T HAVE TO READ THIS...
I JUST WANTED SOMETHING TO POST XDD

[looking at the start]

"Other people-pleasers have a history of maltreatment. And somewhere along the way they decided their best hope for better treatment was to try and please the people who mistreated them. Over time, people pleasing became a way of life.

Many people-pleasers confuse pleasing people with kindness. When discussing their reluctance to turn down someone's request for a favor, they say things like, "I don't want to be selfish," or "I just want to be a good person." Consequently, they allow others to take advantage of them."

The first paragraph... eh...
I grew up as a nice person (after my rowdy and evil first years), so yeah...
People Pleasing became part of my life for as long as I can remember...
I do break out of it a few times before.

The second paragraph though...
XDDDDDDDDDDDDD
YEP!! THAT'S ME ALL RIGHT!!!

(The descriptions of each sign are in the website, you can just go check it out)

1. You pretend to agree with everyone.

-Well I do agree most of the time simply because I mostly have nothing to say, and go what has been decided... so nope.

2. You feel responsible for how other people feel.

-If they feel sad, the only thing I can do is at least try to comfort them... yeah...
I don't think so that much... sometimes

3. You apologize often. - /

-I DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS ONE!!!
THIS IS TOTALLY ME XDDDD

i do blame myself for a lot of things actually...

4. You feel burdened by the things you have to do.

-Other than school activities and stuff, I'm mostly preoccupied in a lot of things I want to do, making me overwork myself, but other than that...

Nope

5. You can't say no. - /

-I used to be like this...
BUT NOT ANYMORE XDDD

out of the way, on to the next one!

6. You feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. - /

-YEP!!

When someone seems to be angry and seems to be agitated at me (even though I did nothing wrong), yeah...

ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!

7. You act like the people around you.

-Nah...

nope!

8. You need praise to feel good. - /

-Now here's something I am!

yeah...

I mostly seek for fame and attention to feel good...

WHOA WHOA WHOA!!!

I genuinely wanna be a magical girl, okay?! XD

I mean in different cases... like art and grades and mostly to my (real life and non-subliminal user friends)...

Yeah...
I just seek validation to feel accepted. (probably a big red flag)
Just... don't mind me, okay?
I'm fine XD

9. You go to great lengths to avoid conflict. - /

-When I mean conflict with anyone, I mean having drama with anyone...

LITERALLY. ANYONE

and when there's drama, 

I pretend to not notice it, and wouldn't even TRY to get involved...

NOW ON TO THE LAST ONE!!!

10. You don't admit when your feelings are hurt. - /

-....

i don't wanna say anything about this one other than the fact that it's totally me.



So am I a people-pleaser?

Well, 6 out of 10..!

._.

I'll try to manage myself...

And I should really try not to seek for validation XD

To me, it's something I have to improve on.

Well!

Look out for that (probably) the last thing I have to introduce in my F-Shift!
(well... not really, since people change overtime.)


See ya' next time, SUCKERS!!!


XDDD



i just like to say that, sorry XD