So I'm just confused about my gender. I searched for stuff like "greygender" and "polygender" to see if it would help and there was nothing. So I can't get support online if my gender isn't even acknowledged. So this is just a journal where I can ta...
Lots of people think "bigender" and "bisexual" means you are attracted to/identify as boys and girls HOWEVER it does not necessarily mean that.
"Bi" does not mean "boys and girls" it means "two" hence bicycles having two wheels. This means that you could be any two genders or like any two genders. You could be agender and male, for instance.
Just wanted to clear that up.
NOW. Time for stuff.
Clothes and how to present yourself as Bigender: since you are two genders, just try mixing stereotypes of those two genders until you feel comfortable with people just knowing you're Bigender. Until then, I'm afraid the easiest way is just to wear stereotyped clothes to express yourself. If you are the generic male/female then you could wear a male t shirt and a skirt. Who cares if it looks strange?
If someone says to you "that looks weird" reply with "oh sorry, but I don't wake up and think 'what would _______ like me to wear today?!'"
Pronouns - you can mix and match! You could be a she but prefer to be called Mr! Or a xe but prefer captain! You could also use two pronouns like he and per. Knock yourself out!
Here is the symbol for you kids to graffiti everywhere (please don't) (well it's up to you) (but please don't) (but PRIDE) (but LAW) (cisgender is still the law in some countries...)
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Coming out
Specify what genders you identify with and specify the combination of pronouns you use (if there is a combination)
