Marriage was not created by man but God so every marriage is a spiritual work done by God,the union of two people into one flesh and body.
Marriage is what you make it seem,if you say your marriage isn't sweet ,are you sweetening it? If you aren't then obviously it won't be sweet.
As a husband, don't get too busy with work that you have you have no time to hang out with your wife and spend time with her.
As a wife, don't cheat on your husband because he has no time for you not everyone can be forgiving like Olarotimi.
And be understanding and know that love isn't sex, because he hasn't had time to romance you doesn't mean you should also cheat on him so be understanding and talk in a way he will be calm to listen to your opinion .
Also in your marriage,pray together with your husband so that no agent like Jide would come in contact with any of you and destroy your marriage.
Have good friends that will check and balance your life and keep you in the right path.
Don't listen to outsiders about what your partner is doing because false rumors can break your home.
Be careful of the news you listen to about your partner so it won't lead to the end of your marital life.
For any marriage to work God must be present in every point of your lives.
So never stop praying for it to work .
Pray to God before and after choosing a life partner,let your marriage work by doing only things that would make it work.
A reader:if I was Olarotimi,I would divorce Yetunde,
Author thinking : if Olarotimi had divorced his wife, Yetunde his life would have been ruined.
A reader: Why
Author thinking: Most times we do things just to show how upset we are and after doing it,we don't have peace or rest of mind,so why suffer in life by holding grudges you can easily release,instead just forgive,forget and move on in love.
A reader: Hmm so you mean when someone has hurt me so badly ,I should just forgive 😟
Author thinking: I know it's hard to do but if Jesus on the cross of Calvary could ask God to forgive those who crucified him then why can't I ,why can't you.
A reader : Jesus's case was different please
Author thinking: why do you sin and God still forgives you
A reader : simple thing,God is a God you know so what he does are things we can't do
Author thinking: But do you know that He made man in his own image , meaning God has given you the power to forgive also and that's why in the prayer Jesus taught his disciples ,
... Give us this day,
Our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
You see you have to forgive others before God can forgive you so please don't sleep at night each day without making amends with those who had offended you or got you angry.
Simple thing : Forgive,when you forgive it's like you are uplifting a burden from your heart,you then feel at ease ,so forgive.
Watchward : what would Jesus do 😌.
Question time 🥶
Oh don't worry, it's not going to be that hard 😭.
1. If you were Olarotimi, would you forgive Yetunde?
2. What do you not like about Yetunde?
3. What do you not like about Olarotimi?
4. After Jide had threatened to tell Olarotimi of his illicit affair he had with Yetunde,if you were Yetunde what would you do?
5. If you were Olarotimi,after learning of yetunde's extramarital affair,what would you do? Would you also cheat on her?
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