Just realised you aren't gay, straight or bi? Scared you don't exist? Worried that there isn't a label for what you're feeling? This is the book for you! It starts off with the less little-known sexualities (asexual, pansexual etc) but gets to the...
Greysexuality is something many people may be experiencing, but they just think it's normal or just a personality trait. It's almost exactly in between allosexual and asexual - it means you experience attraction very occasionally or only under certain circumstances. And it is hella valid!!!
To go more into detail, a greysexual (also graysexual, grey-asexual and gray-asexual) would only feel attraction very, very rarely, or it could be used to mean that when they do experience attraction, it isn't very strong and perhaps only a crush.
Just like demisexual and fraysexual, being greysexual doesn't say anything about the gender you're attracted to. So you could be greypolysexual or greyomniromantic. You could also be something like fraygreypansexual, meaning you only feel attraction very rarely, only on people you don't know too well and are genderblind.
Does this sound like you? Have you thought you're aromantic or asexual for a very long time, and then suddenly you experience feelings for someone? And then if you stop liking that person, do you not like anyone for a very long time yet again? Are your crushes mainly mild and/or brief? You may be greysexual or greyromantic.
No, this does not mean they are picky It's not something they can help! They could want to feel attraction more often but just don't! It doesn't mean they have high standards, it just means they rarely feel attraction.
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