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this story was inspired from my cousin went through this experience
y/n point of view
long distance.
it was the first time I was going to meet y/bf my long distance boyfriend we have been texting and face timing for 1 year a 2 months.
I was extremely excited to meet y/bf,we did say our love you's over the phone on FaceTime he did have multiple girlfriends from his previous relationship which did make me suspicious but I looked over at it.
I arrived at the airport,where I looked around for him I saw y/bf,he walked over to me with quite a dull look on his face I gave him a smile as he approached me giving me a hug.
I noticed that he was the same height as me,which he lied about being 6'0
the last time we going to meet up,I'm July he didn't show up for some reason which I was really hurt and upset from but he explained to me there was a reason why he couldn't make it.
All my friends and cousins told me he was bad news but I igorned them as he was good to me even though he had his own issues.
Y/bf was quite shy person as well .
"hi how are you?"I smiled at him he gave me awkward smile.
he looked away from me not looking into my eyes "I'm good let's go to the hotel" he suggested
I felt there was a weird tension it would probably lower down as the day continued
I carried on with small chat with y/bf but he give one word sentence I found it weird because when we talked online he was talkative and his personality was more bubbly.
I few days has passed with y/bf ,it was still the same energy
He wouldn't look at me in the eye and he would always look away from me he was quite shy still I found it weird because wouldn't he be comfortable with me now.
we did make love on our first night as well ,I lost virginity to him as well.
The last day finally came and we was laid down in the bed I hoping this day would finally end it was so awkward as heck but maybe it could be something we could discuss.
"I think we should break up"he randomly said to me
I furrowed my eyebrows "w-what do you mean?"I asked confused after all the money I spent.
I felt my heart ache
He looked down "we should break up,I don't feel like there's nothing between us there's no spark"
"So I traveled all the way here to meet you and you took my virginity as well just to say there was nothing there,if there wasn't anything why would you even be with me"I argued angrily.
He didn't respond,I rolled my eyes,I didn't want to be there any longer
I packed my bags and left.
I had to find my self a way home,I took a bus.
y/bf, was a catfish not about his appearance but his personality and his height to me,he would say things to me about his friends and family that I don't agree on I lowered my standards for him.
that was probably the reason that why he got into so many relationships with so many girls
The reason I wanted this chapter was to show you guys you need to know your own self worth.
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The problem here with this guy was that my cousin was talking to was he had his own issues with himself and didn't have any self-love at all and he got into lots of relationships so he could make himself feel better about himself and what he got that feeling of confidence from that relationship he breaks up with the girl then once that confident leaves him he gets into another one and it's a constant cycle of him trying to find love for himself By getting into relationships which of obviously wouldn't work and he has his own issues with the fact that he is not confident with himself and he doesn't love himself and the fact he had to catfishes his personality as well and his height.
That the fact this boy is seeking validation from other women and telling them all these amazing things and once they meet him he just breaks up with him
His behaviour is very toxic and he just needs to go to therapy honestly.
That's why us girls need to know our own worth I'm not to lower our standards for any guy just wanted to give him a chance because they'll keep on doing it either way.
if you're having any issues with the boys just message me on Instagram or with friends
