All women on this site, answer me a question i have.
What do you look for in guys, and why do you put up with so much of our shenanigans?
What draws you to us, when we can be so immature and protective?
Our tempers aren't very manageable, and most of the time were horribly competitive.
And MUCH rather be watching the game and not listening to what happened to you today.
I can tell you what were like, and for those that think im a jerk, im sorry, but its true.
For the frst few weeks and months of the relationship, we try to act perfect. We let you do whatever you want, buy you things to make you happy, and let you watch Gossip Girls during the time we could be watch ESPN. Trust me, ive been through it many times.
You all think were interested in you for your head, when only sometimes were looking at that. But the first thing that catches our eyes are your bodies. Then we move forward. Is her body nice, is her face nice, does she smell nice. And lastly its your personality.
Were very hands on creatures, we also like things that are nice to look at. Why do you think most of us end up with the "High class bitches" as my ex liked to call them?
And girls, we ARE simple. We DONT notice the small things you do, especially when its 4 years into a relationship. And also most of the time, we dont KNOW were being jerks.
There is guy mode, and then boyfriend mode, and for you guys out there, you know what i mean.
We act differently when were out with the guys. When were with them, No matter how faithful a guy is, he will still look at girls. Maybe not flirt, maybe not daydream, but definetly look. Its in our nature. Personally, i know i did, but i never touched, never wanted to touch, because i knew i had a good catch.
This girl was 5'6" platnum blonde, great body, and smelled like Vanilla. All great qualities. But i went home to a 5'5" girl, wavy black hair, perfect body and smelled like her amazing body wash which you had to get really close to fully smell. She knew me, and she knew how i acted and she put up with it.
After a long day at work and school, shed make me dinner and cuddle up with me and pick at my plate while she allowed me a couple hours of game time. After that id happily watch the recorded True blood from last night.
Shed sit there and explain how Stefon or whatever did something or another...I dont remember, because it wasnt important to me and half the time i was lost but she looked great explaining it. Shed smile and made faces to express how she felt. It always made me laugh.
I can tell you now, she was way out of my league, but she stayed with me for the longest time, and she put up with most of what i put her through. But i wanted to know, why do you do that girls? Do you honestly love us when you say you do? Or is it only sometimes? Do you honestly like going to our sports games, and watching us fool around with the guys after practice? Do you like when we bring you gifts even though theyre sometimes corny?
And what is the first thing tht attracts you to guys? What pulls you in? What pushes you away?
Do you wear the perfume for us? Do you lead us on and the push us away for a reason? Do you dress nicely for us? Give me some answers because Ive been in one to many relationships and still dont know anything about you all.
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