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Moving on <3

Hello Sweetie Awesomies, this is another tips thing. <3. 

So, moving on in life is one of the hardest thing to do, especially when you just experienced a terribly negative incident. :(((. Like breakups, loss, parents' divorce, or even a fight, anything that you want to FORGET and move on. Anything that you don't want to share but want to forget.

But you can't move on. It's too hard. :*(. Or is it... :)

No matter what is wrong, life will still go on, and your ups will still come. :) ENJOY them. <3 I'm going to give you some tips, so whenever you need it in life, I hope it will help. 

1.) Never feel suicidal. That is the first thing I need to tell anyone out there who feel like life is nolonger worth living. Because it always is. There's always someone who needs you. Even if you feel lonely at this time and you think I'm wrong, well I'm right. The person who needs you may be a person in your future. You're the boss of your life. ;) Live it.

2.) Remembering bad memories are really unhealthy. More than you might think. So delete them. If you're going through a breakup and have a broken heart, delete all memories of your ex. This can go for friends who stop being your friends. Throw away or donate/ give away anything that reminds you of them. Any gift they gave you. I'm not saying it's easy to do this, but living on with things that remind you of them... Not good. :( So get rid of any gifts they might've gaven you. If possible. Also, go on your phone and delete any pictures of them. Even texts. If you're sure you guys won't work out together ever again, get rid of the memories, Girl. :) (And boy! XD) Okay, if you don't want to see the pictures but want to keep them in a place anyways, save the pictures in a flash drive, out of your phone or laptop/ other devices. You're done with them. :) Okay, with loss of loved ones though, completely different story, don't get rid of any pictures or reminders of them, treasure them. Don't be sad that they're unfortunately gone, be happy that you were part of their life, and they were part of your life. <3

3.) Brighten your outlook. :D And have fun with it! Brightening your appearance first, starts the beginning of brightening your inside too! For girls, use bright/ neon makeup, nail polish, or buy brighter clothing and shoes. Change your hair style! (For guys too XD) The change will help you start over. :) For girls, find a new braid to wear everyday. :) And the golden key: Smile. Seriously, I do that when I'm bawling my eyes out. One slight twist of your lips, your heart brightens up. I might sound stupid, but try it. XD :)))

4.) Distract yourself. Do something you love. :))) For me, it's going shopping, so I can look at stuff I love, and walk around the mall. XD It's not like I have to buy anything. :) I just want to enjoy. Relax. <3 Another thing I do is spend time with @Metalhandedness62. XD Spend time with your hilarious special friends. :)))

5.) You may even have special techniques! :) Some that you should explore and discover! Techniques that only work for beautiful you. <3. For me, I love to look at pictures of night cities XD. Do something, even if it's looking at something, to stop your heartache. Explains all the randomness of my profile pics and backgrounds! XD

6.) Don't go anorexic. :( I've had two friends who went through breakup blame themselves for being "ugly." They think that something's wrong with themselves, but people go through a lot of breakups in life. Does that mean there's something wrong with everyone? Nope. :)

7.) Find something to obsess with! :) The last time something unfortunate happened to me, I decided to obsess with lipstick, purses, and stilettos. Random, huh? XD Do anything for yourself. Believe me, you're not weird. You're just beautiful. XD. (That's why my username is @ilovefingerprints, I was obsessed with fingerprints. You can say I'm weird. I don't care. }:) )

8.) Revenge. That is on everyone's mind, right? :( Don't do that! If someone's mean to you, don't even yell at them, that makes you a bad person- like them. Do you know how to get back at them, though? Smile. The thing that will bug them most is failure to affect you. What did they want when they decided to hurt you? To affect you. To ruin your life. If you don't let them. If you stay happy. Ah, that's the best way to get back at them. :) They would love it if you hold them in your heart and feel terrible. So what should you do? Don't let them affect you, and live better than them. You can't go out and ruin their life, so make your life better than their life. ;) My mom told me that. You can do it! All they do is try and ruin people anyways. :P Forget them. Don't even talk to them. They're not worth talking to.

9.) Give yourself some goals. :))) Make the next chapter of your life beautiful by accomplishing something! Also, take out a pretty notebook right now. }:) And start writing down every GOOD memory since you were born. :) Start with the first good thing you remember. XD And write everyday, until you get to the most recent good thing. Then, use that notebook as your life story. Read it when you're down, remembering all those good memories- your life, is the best favor you can do for yourself. <3

Forgive yourselves Awesomies, you can't start your next adventure without forgetting the negative past. Life is full of surprises. Even if you feel like it can't get better, it will. Remember, change can only happen if you don't pull yourself back and let yourself drown in sadness again. :( Starting over can be hard at first, but you'll love it. I did.

Hope the ones of you who needed this found this helpful. <3 Move on. Live a new life.

I. Love. Every. Single. One. Of. You. :)))

-@ilovefingeprints. <3