Dear future husband
Yes I'm back to my old boring introductions but why not ? So today I'll continue the friends topic but in a different direction the best friends direction if you will.
I don't plan on giving you my definition of a best friend nor do I intend on giving you a dictionary meaning of it. I'm not sure if you had or have a best friend as I write this if yes then I'm sure you could define the term yourself ?
Like many girls across the globe I've had friends who I taught fit the term bestfriend damn was I wrong. Don't get me wrong yes I've had bestfriend's maybe 4 I think I'm not sure but out of the 4 I'm certain I had 2. Yes I used the term had because things happen , people change life goes on. So I'll mention these 2 people and I'll use the nicknames I called them on.
Like many girls I know I was at one stage in my life where I had a boy bestfriend his name is Wallie I called him Pie at times. I met him through my other bestfriend that I'll soon mention he was her first boyfriend. I told him many things , I trusted him and he was like a brother to me. But as soon as he ended his relationship our friendship wasn't the same anymore. But I'll forever be grateful for the role he played in my life he never did anything like backstabbing me or being an asshole. He taught me that not all guys are complete assholes just some.
My second ex bestfriend I am mentioning was not mentioned first because we have a far longer story that brings back good and bad memories , along with emotions. I called her Lana or Pie don't ask how the name Pie came I myself don't know. I met her in 2nd grade we were in the same class and we hit it off. Through the years we had periods where we didn't speak then boom we speak randomly. She would sleep over , we'd sing songs from Gospel to Pop we always wanted to be on our church's praise and worship team. Lana was like another sister to me we had our fair share it fights I honestly wanted to kick her ass at some point and I'm sure the feeling is mutual. We got separate friends and were not really as close up until late in grade 8. We were inseparable I'd do anything for her at the time , we had done a whole lot of nonsense together like drinking our selves into oblivion. Or having boys over when her parents weren't home for an entire weekend damn if walls could talk we would be in deep shit. So like I said things happen people change , I changed she changed. We befriended people but at a point I couldn't be with her no longer for personal reason ( I'll tell you this face to face one day ) . In grade 11
our friendship ended due to reasons and like that all those years of friendship was gone and forgotten. Now when we walk past one another it's like we don't know the other person , funny right ? One minute she can be your sister the next your complete strangers as if you never knew one another.
However through it all Lana taught me some really valuable lessons things that prepare you for life ahead.
So baby I'm wondering if you've ever had a Lana and Wallie in your life? The kind of people who can change your opinion of people. If so who ? And are you still friends? You can answer those questions for me in the future as for now just sit and wonder...
