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40_ Separation.

_When I asked my friend about the reason for her separation and her ex-boyfriend, she told me that they were shopping together one day, and he always took steps before her, leaving her behind without paying attention to her in the crowd .. She was walking behind him, looking at him, and I thought for the first time since she knew whether this was the man who  She will live with him for the rest of her life
Days later, she was unable to continue talking to him for more than a minute, as if something had ended and he was buried forever, and so they separated.

I thought a lot about how stupid and funny it seemed at the same time that a woman broke off her relationship with a man only because he preceded her by steps while shopping, and how shocking he was when I told him that, there is no doubt that he called her sick or crazy ..
She remembered a scene from a movie that she watched a while ago, as the heroine of the film was refusing everyone who proposed to her and it happened that she was on one of the appointments with a man who wanted to marry her, and he was adamant in his request despite her categorical refusal, during their conversation when the waiter put coffee cups on the table  One of the two cups slipped from his hand towards the hand of the film heroine, and without thinking the man (the groom) extended his hand to drop hot coffee on him instead.
Later, when he asked her why she agreed, she told him the story, saying, "It was the first time that someone preferred me over himself."

They are details that no one can give weight to, but they change the form of the relationship, so it either gives it life or bury it.
No man can believe that a woman might leave him only because he preceded her by steps in the crowd, or that she might agree to marry him only because he extended his hand to burn in her stead ..

Women have rulings like these.
She may put the universe in her hands, but she rejects you because you forgot how many pieces of sugar you would like to put in her cup, and she may just love you because you never forget that she prefers strawberry-flavored sweets and not vanilla.
Teams alone make those details that no one pays attention to.