● Wanting to be a lesbian but feeling like if you don’t already know you are one you can’t be
● Feeling guilty about wanting to be a lesbian, feeling like you’re just
attention-seeking or trying to be trendy
● You think, or fear, that you might be a lesbian, and you find yourself somewhat constantly/desperately trying to prove to yourself that you’re not
● Suppressing your lesbian dreams because you think exploring that desire would mean you’re a bad/homophobic person using lesbianness selfishly
● Wishing you were a lesbian to escape the discomfort of dating men
● Fantasizing about how much fun it would be to be a lesbian and just be with women/a specific woman, but thinking that can’t be for you
● Worrying that some of your past attraction to men was actually real so you can’t be a lesbian
● Worrying that bc you can’t be 100% sure you’re not attracted to men and can’t be 100% sure you won’t change your mind, you can’t be a lesbian
● Worrying that you only want to be a lesbian because of trauma and that means your lesbianness would be Fake
● Worrying that trauma-induced complications in how you experience sex (e.g., a habit of self-harming via sex w men or a fear of any sex at all) mean you’re not a Real Lesbian
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