I've lost at least 10 friends in the last 6 months. most have been in the last month or two
I realized you don't lose friends because real friends can never be lost. you lose people who masquerading as friends. when some of your good friends become strangers it's a kind of pain some people won't experience but a lot of you will. isn't it pathetic how we waste so much time on certain people and in the end they prove they weren't even worth a second of it. the decision not to be friends wasn't your choice; it was your actions and my decision.
Lately, I realized that most of the people I called my friends aren't actually my friends. friends aren't supposed to forget important details or say they're too busy to give you 5 minutes or say you're selfish especially when you drop everything for them without a second thought. friends are supposed to support you and tell you when your doing something stupid or being an idiot not lie or say nothing, friends aren't supposed to ignore you or leave you on reading. there not supposed to ignore you for weeks and then come to you when they have a problem. there not supposed to replace you with a boyfriend/girlfriend. there supposed to be there for you when you need them not act like you don't exist. Good friends are loyal and accept you for who you are during the good and bad times. Good friends are also honest — honest enough to tell you when you're not being a good friend yourself. I notice some people surround themselves with people who will lie and say what you want them to say. but I prefer being honest and saying the truth. some people don't like that but I've known what it felt like to be lied to and it's not a good feeling.
one last thing.
You have to let people go. everyone who's in your life is meant to be in your journey. But not all of them are meant to stay till the end. and the worst part is most people choose if they stay or go. whether it's by their actions or words. And that's what hurts the most
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