Life of Love

Ten =Lies=

They've said that lie is always a lie, that no matter how big nor small lie is still a lie, nor it may called white lies yet still a lie. But why do people lie anyways? Here it is, it because of protection. Protecting yourself nor protecting someone.

Sometimes we lie cause we protect ourselves from hurting our pride nor our egos'. We protect ourselves from hurt we could possibly feel after they know the truth nor we must say we protect ourselves from hurtin our feelings for own benefits of doubt. That we got to afraid to admit the truth, that been infront of us. Yet we protect and we lie as part of being a human. But we all still has our limitations, indeed we can lie but with its deeper reasons nor meanings. It may be reasonable or not still a lie. But we had all choice, to regret it or not regret it on the end. If you lie for a good cause or for just for your own good.

I my self admit that I've got to lie a lot of times to anyone nor to everybody around me, from what i really feel and from what i see and told to other people and also on how i think of them. But for me i could tell its all a white lies. A lies that wasn't really benefiting me but it benefits the others, the others who im lying with. Why? And how? It because im lying to them, for not being a burden and not to be judge nor to judge someone from a simple misunderstanding and non communicable way of sayin. I lie most of the time for them not to get hurt badly but yet i still try to be fair and balance with every peice of advices nor judgements that i could've give to them in a simple and good way, specially when i just got to know that person or specially that person is new to me. Im an observant person yet not judgemental as may possible to someone new to me. I first try to see and learn what his or her personality may it be or how we and i should i approach them. Being empathetic indeed, and that's my nature yet sometimes being empathetic can be much disadvantage in some degrees yet still helpful in daily lives of learnings.

I mostly got to lie to anyone or to someone when i try to protect someone's privacy and security. Just like how we promise to kept a secret to someone right? Just like it how ganna be yet in different intentions and reasons. Though i know its still a lie and i know i may got caught and add it as a karma yet i still dont regret it knowing i can protect and defend someone from other criticism which they don't deserve knowing, those people who'll gonna criticized them doesn't really know a lot nor knew them deeply that they just judge them.

I had to lie for those people who i cherish most yet i know it wasn't good and very unforgivable they must say but, that's how i wanna be and that's i kept and treasures someones secrets as a promise. Though mostly they say " promises is meant to be broken" yet i still do believe of fullfilling each promises even though its not worthy to keep on and even though it wasn't right that it came up to abusive of them just because of that promises. Yet still a promise is a promise that need to fullfill through lifetimes. Cause thats how you treasure someone whose very dear to you.

We might caught at the end as we lie yet still we need to accept and deal with it and not to run anway with it nor not admit our mistakes as we lie. We must accept that we lie and face the consequences as we lie and we should ready to explain our sides once we got caught or not once we lie. It might be reasonable or not, deep lie or white lies still we need to explain and apologize for what we did. They might not get it nor accept our excuses nor explanations yet still we do apologize and learn from our mistakes and admit it as our mistakes that we got to learned.

Lies in love is mostly done in different matter yet some is intolerant specially when get to hurt someone to deeply that i may cause to much pain by physically, mentally and soul. We all know that people has its own choices to choose form yet its also our choice to know what's right and wrong. We have our minds to think deeply and think twice nor multiple times before we done something to someone nor to everybody. We also has our hearts to feel what's right and wrong, to feel empathetic to anyone before doin any decisions. And lastly we all has our inner soul that need to be heard most of the time for what's right and just in every decision we're making, its our inner soul that connects us from our true self and for the devines nor Angeles that's guiding us, to do right and just.

We can lie yes, yet in limitations as much as possible if we can avoid not to lie, then don't, hear your innerself on what its speaking to you. Try to think any reasonable reason nor solution that can really help your situation, just for you not to lie. Yet if you came up into a situation of needing to lie, yes you can but accept and ready yourself to admit it in the end and not to hide it even more. Explain and accept consequences you might have for lying and learn from it.

There are some types of lies, a lie that's beneficial to others: like you needing to hide it to make a surprise, a lie that can ruined someone: like you putting someone in danger nor in difficult situation, a lie that protects: like a secret to be untold in any situation, like a promise to fullfillnor hold, a lie that benefits yourself: like protect your emotions and setting boundaries from harmful and negative emotions that might come to you and a lie that wasn't reasonable nor no excuse. This is mostly the types of lies you may and might encouter in our life yet it still on us how we deal in every lies we gonna make and how we deal in every lies we gonna hear and experience from anyone nor everyone that surrounds us, its up to us. Yet we still really need to learn to hear someone's explanation first nor try to listen to them before acting nor react immediately towards the lies they gave to you. Still be balance and have faith, believe that maybe they have their own good enough reasons why they did that. We need to be much more understanding in every situation, yet we know its hard but just try to give them a time to explain and yet give yourself a time to heal too. Cause thats how we need to do, that how love should work specially if that person is once become part of your life, your journey. Cause memories and learnings won't fade aways easily it always comes back. Also forgiveness is the enough key to success of happiness and love. Cause this life is supposed to feel and experience any act of love fulfillment. No hate no dramas. It will just burden you in time being if we dont forgive and forget and we cannot really be fully happy in life if we have this burden within our soul, we cannot feel that love we've searching all our life if we cannot learn how to forgive and forget.

Though life maybe difficult and unfair sometimes yet still give us the excitement and learnings to hold in every lifetimes.