Life of Love

FIFTEEN=COMPROMISE=

Compromising which leads to good nor better relationship,  its a give and take situation.  Wherein you were able to balance things nor situation. An arguments which we try to understand every situation in our life nor in love.

A talk that leads to good nor better conversation,  it helps us to understand and listen to what others opinion nor statement in a situation.

I remember when someone dear to me gives advice. I ask him about what I'll  gonna do to a situation, which is my fear of not hurting anyone in such decision i might made, then he said life wasnt that fair as always,  cause in the end you might hurt someone unintentionally with your decisions and also it wasnt really my fault nor our fault on hurting them specially when choosing a such situations. Yet it also their choice to feel the pain that wasn't put to cause intentionally or not. As you see here,  its where and how we choose our choice in life. 
Then he tells me about compromise, in able for your to have a good relationship to others and for you to really know someone deeply you two must know how to compromise, just like having a chat. YOu need to talk and have a conversation which have both understanding and acceptance and be open to what's  the possibilities of a outcome.  You must learn how to listen and think it over,  which you would supposed to do. It might be a good nor bad decisions still you know what right decision you may got into. As ive always say "we are the one who makes our own decisions in life, we chooses our paths, cause we have freewill yet we should always be on balance and know whats good or bad and admit that if anything bad happens you shouldn't blame someone nor anyone". After all its our own decisions, our own choice. Yet in some situation sometimes its reliable nor at be your fault which is irrelevant to handle.

Compromising that can help you see the truth and beyond the understanding you see,  you heard and may know to someone,  once you learn to observed and always ready to listen for someones opinion and try to feel their words,  you might get a better solution nor better result that you might do in a situation, It may be difficult nor easy to be dealt with nor it might be to deep nor shallow the situation is,  you'll  gonna have a better result from it.

In an intimate relationships nor deep relationship compromise is a promise. A good flow of communications towards each other and has deep understanding in situation will lead to forever nor a long lasting relationships that everyone nor anyone wants to have. Though sometimes some situation is hard to understand and difficult to accepted yet its only us who supposed to deal with it and be strong and try to be optimistic about things. But I guess its also base on how maturely a person handles situation nor wise enough to act from every situation s/he will be.

Compromise is also called situationship which we handle fairly, we balance things good or bad,  just like yin yang effect which is life always have. Which is always the Good and the Bad. We must know the cause and effect of every situation we'll dealt with.