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»when you're the dominant one in the relationship.

//SOOBIN//
-you'll baby him loads and keep him safe whenever he's feeling anxious, he actually enjoys this as he always knows you're there for him whenever he needs you.
-he actually prefers that you're more of the dominant one as he gets pretty shy alot, especially around you, but because you're more confident and adult like towards him, it allows him to feel more comfortable when he's with you, and he enjoys that you take control because it allows him to learn from you and kind of take your lead.
-you're more of the active and hard working type, and you make more of the choices in the relationship so it allows him to rest and not overthink things.

//YEONJUN//
-he doesn't realise it too much as he sees it more of you being responsible and mature, but there's times where he'll whine because he wants to feel manly and in control, where because you're acting more like that he doesn't get to feel like that.
-you always get the choice of doing things and going places, you're likely in control, and when you are it'll trigger him quite a bit, "why are you being like this? let me do it for once".
-yeonjun's a guy who likes to be more in control than you in your relationship, so you holding more dominance doesn't sit well with him.

//BEOMGYU//
-finds it quite annoying but in times it soothes him, like the times he realises you're being obviously more dominant, he'll give you a death stare before continuing his way because he wants more of the control, however if he's feeling a little down or anxious, you being more dominant really comes to his favour, it comforts him and makes him feel protected.
-he subtly puts more effort into taking lead and gaining more control than you, he's even talked to you about it before because it upsets him, it makes him feel less worthy than you and actually triggers him quite a bit.

//TAEHYUN//
-it confuses him yet he allows it, he knows that's how you are so he just works around it.
-it does frustrate him when you try and make decisions and control him a little, but he'll speak to you about it and you actually try work on it together, as realistically there's nothing wrong with you being the more dominant one, however in this this case it actually secretly annoys him and it was starting to show, so you didn't want this little matter to effect your relationship in any way.
-you'd make all the decisions, taking in mind of what he wants to, but as soon as it really started to show, he knew he had to speak to you about it as it began to get irritating.

//HUENINGKAI//
-he's pretty laid back so it doesn't bother him too much, he enjoys your confidence and your sense of leadership, it actually motivates him a little.
-he does question you on it a bit though as he's not sure whether he's suppose to act the same way as you because he didn't realise at the start how dominant you actually are, "do you want me to take control? i mean you do always do it so i don't know if you wanted a break..".
-he sees it more of you just simply being confident and having a high self esteem, where with him, he's not too bothered about too many things and is pretty care free so he lets you deal with everything.