Tula Para Sayo

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"KUNG PAGOD NA KAYO SA RELASYON NIYO, MAGPAHINGA KAYO TAS LABAN ULIT. HINDI YUNG PORKET PAGOD NA MAGHAHANAP NA NG IBA. PORKET PAGOD NA TATAPUSIN NA."

When it comes to relationship its normal na may isa sa inyo ang mawawalan ng gana.
Lalo na pag palagi kayong nag aaway.
Kagaya nalang sa mga walang kwentang bagay nag tatalo kayo.
If ever dumating man kayo sa punto na you guy's feel unloved, and you guys can't feel the spark kasi nga hindi na healthy yong relasyon niyo,
Let me just remind you that break up is not the key.

Kung pwede pang ayusin, ayusin niyo.
Kung pwede pang pag-usapan,
Pag-usapan niyo ng maayos.
Hindi yong, dadating kayo sa punto na "Mas mabuti pang maghiwalay nalang tayo!"
Big NO okay?
Kung ano yong pinasukan niyo, panindigan niyo.
Because if you really love your partner you will never leave.
Instead, you have to find ways just to get back the happiness, the spark, and also the excitement.

Why don't you guys try to remember the day you started to fall?
The day you dream together?
The day you promised that no one will leave?

Balikan niyo yong mga panahong masaya pa kayo.
But you know what?
People nowadays they only stay if they feel they are happy.
But once they cannot feel the happiness, the kilig moments, or even the excitements, bigla nalang silang mawawalan ng gana and instead of fixing it, they will find it to others yong mga bagay na hindi nila nadama sa una.

Did you tried to ask yourself?
Kung bakit maganda lang sa umpisa, tas kalaunan magiging cold, mawawalan ng gana sa lahat.
Habang tumatagal mararamdaman mo talaga yong coldness sa relasyon niyo.
But you know what, it is just a challenge to the both of you to be strong.
Porket wala ng gana, sasabihin mo agad na ayoko na, tapusin na natin to kasi nga ganito, ganyan.
Kung gusto niyo na mag last yong relasyon niyo, then make a move.
Hindi yung nanlamig lang kayo sa isat isa, maghahanap kana ng iba.
Hindi dahil may pagkukulang yung partner mo,
Hahanapin mo ito sa ibang tao.
Hindi dahil may pinag-aawayan kayo, maghahanap kana ng pansamantalang taong magpapaligaya sayo.

I know its easy to cheat, easy to flirt.
But having someone who's truly sincere, honest, that's rare to look for.
So if you have that girlfriend or boyfriend, then you better keep his/her.
Don't ever play their heart and feelings.
Because in the end, you'll surely regret it.

It's nice to have a partner na willing mag stay sayo, no matter what the situation is.
A partner who will never leave you in every hardships.
A partner who'll be proud of you and treat you as his queen or king.
Yung partner na kahit anong gawin mong pag pupush sa kahit na sino mang tao ay hindi ka parin iiwan and will say "bat pa ako maghahanap ng iba, e kontento na ako sayo ng sobra"
Its so nice to have a partner that will say "I'll never replace you to any other woman or man because having you is enough.
And also, to have you in my life is such a wonderful blessings."

If you found that kind of boyfriend or girlfriend, ingatan mo siya because they are worth it to be loved.

Pero kung talagang toxic na talaga, kung feeling niyo hindi na maaayos then mag-usap kayo ng masinsinan, maghiwalay kayo ng maayos.
Hindi yong magsisiraan dito, magsisiraan doon.
Kasi sa buhay natin, maaaring hindi pala sila yong  perpektong itinugma para sayo.
Maaaring ipinagtagpo lang kayo sa maling pagkakataon, sa panahong hindi pa kayo handa, kaya ito nilayo saiyo, dahil hindi pa iyon ang perfect timing para sa inyong dalawa.
Maaaring ipinagtagpo lang kayong dalawa para maging lesson sa isat-isa, para mag grow as a person at mag matured bago mo mahanap ang taong muling bubuo at kukumpleto sa blankong espasyo ng buhay mo.

Always remember that there is always beauty in pain.
Because of pain, marami tayong mapupulot na aral na maaari nating baunin at iapply sa susunod na pagkakataon.
Kaya siguro hindi kayo nag last dahil hindi pa siya ang best person for you. Dahil may magandang plano si God for you.

(Sorry kung sobrang haba, worth to read naman eh hehe. God bless you always admin if ever ma post man to and to all of you dear avid readers to this page take care and Godblessyou always.)

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