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Journal Entry no. 6 - Relationship Advice

You could probably guess what we're going to talk about since the name of the entry says it all.

A friend of mine asked me a question, he messaged me saying that he needed a confidant and since I'm his best friend, I should be it.

"I like her. Hell, I would go as far as saying that I love her. My best friend knows that I like her but she likes him. And even though he denies it, he likes her too."

By best friend, he means best bro or best guy friend.

I've always been the go to girl whenever he needs advice, quite frankly, whenever someone needs advice. I don't know why. I've never been in a relationship, the closest thing I felt regarding love is crush, actually, no, it was infatuation so I don't know why they ask me. Maybe because I observe things.

But back to topic.

I asked him what he wanted to do and what exactly does he want me to say. He didn't respond so I assumed that he doesn't know what he wants. Then, I asked him if he was mad at his beat friend.

"No."

That was his answer. Now, it's obvious. I know this guy. He's the kind of guy who easily gets irritated and the fact that he's not mad means that he - somehow - understands.

"But I am. I'm not mad but I am. She likes him and he likes her. As much as he wants to deny it, it shows. And he's flirting with her. And it sucks because I know that he won't do that to me. I should feel angry but I'm not and I'm mad because of that. That's why I'm mad because I'm not."

He doesn't somehow understands. He understands.

"You're mad? Why? Because you know that he's the guy that people pushed into liking the person that he doesn't. You knew. You know that he likes her since sophomore year yet you - and a bunch of morons - pushed him into liking the girl that likes him. Are you mad because deep down you know that you're happy for him?

Dude, admit it. You don't love this girl. You say that you're in love with someone way too soon. I don't even know if you know the meaning of love. You already said that the last time but you immediately moved on and said that you love the girl that you were currently flirting with. That's not love.

I know that your friendship with him is much more important than what your relationship with this girl could ever be. I'm not saying that you should let her go for him, what I'm saying is before you even try to ruin your friendship with your best bro, know where your feelings stand.

If you say that you like her but she likes someone else, then stop and move on. You don't want to be the guy who keeps pushing himself to the girl that doesn't like him. Don't be that guy."

Maybe I was harsh, maybe I wasn't. If I was though, in my defense, I want him to get it through his thick skull and the only way to do that is by being harsh.

Oh well.

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I hope that it wasn't that harsh. But that was rather the point. I wanted to be harsh so he would learn. Forgive me if my way of comforting someone is a bit different and pretty much offending. Apologies.

But I guess, that's how he likes it since he keeps asking me for advices. Not only him but a lot. I guess that's how they like it.

Anyways,

Journal entry no. 6! Lots of love.

J.

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