Trans Moth Boi Has Issues

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Hi, I have Aparently not had a problem for a few months so I'm here again with a very small one yippe.

So since my last shit since this is pretty much a lowkey journal at this point, I have gotten over trying to have the approval of the dicks I was talking about last time and also now have a partner go me, but anyways

So I've been growing my hair back out for at least a year now and now I've gotten so use to long hair and I think I look a lot better with longer hair but that brings several problems

1. I live in the south and do not grow facial hair easily despite being on T for almost three years now so I get misgendered very very often because a, people don't read (fuckers) and b, people here assume if you have long hair it means you're a woman which isn't true but still

2. It's hard to maintain. I don't brush it because it's curly and thick so it frizzes out and just sucks to deal with when I do brush it out. But because I don't brush it out it tangled easily.

3. I don't know what products I should actually be using on it to keep it from tangling so easily because it's really annoying now.

4. I have so much hair yet seem to loose/shed a lot? It's weird

At this point I want to cut it but at the same time I don't want it to be short again because I don't think I look good with short hair because I usually cut it myself and it looks wonky until grows out a little bit, and because I'm afraid if I start cutting it I'll impulsively cut a bunch of it off so idk what to do at this point.