I promise you , treating people how they deserve to be treated after being a people pleaser for years is THE BEST feeling .
People pleasing in my opinion is toxic because you disregard your opinions, morals and values all for the pleasure of other people , you have the right and ability to say no when necessary, don't misuse or never use that right because people won't like you .
One thing I've learned is that you can't please everyone and not everyone will like you and honestly that's a good thing , trying so hard to do the impossible is tiring and a waste of time and energy . Remember, everyone has an opinion, likes and dislikes.
And one thing you have to know is that if someone doesn't like you for literally no reason they're either jealous or intimidated by you , that's the mindset you have to develop, once you have developed it , you won't care about what other people have to say about you .
Don't let the opinions or the desire to please others force you into doing what you don't want to do
REMEMBER: Before you ask yourself why they don't like you
Ask yourself why the heck do you care ?
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How To Value Yourself [ COMPLETE ]
Non-FictionThis book is directed towards those who struggle to value and love themselves or for those who want to value and love themselves more . Coming from someone who went through the same thing of no self love and no self value . It's to encourage those...
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