My brother , my sister , there is no perfect human being .
Everyone get's insecure because everyone has insecurities, some are just better at hiding it than most .Even people that seem like they have it all together also get insecure .
And most of the time , people get insecure of their unique features
Eg. Curly hair
Or features that everyone has gone through or will go through
Eg. Acne , celluliteBut you have to get to a point in your life where you accept those things that make you different from others . The more you start to accept and love those features the more you'll realise that there is nothing wrong with them.
It doesn't matter how hard you try , you can never be anyone else , you can be like them but you can never be them . And that's a hard pill to swallow .
Accept yourself because you're the only you there is , accept your strengths and weaknesses because you're the only person that can do what you do the way you do it , don't try to hide your self , accepting yourself isn't only accepting your outward appearance but your personality and character as well
Accept your flaws and insecurities because everything that is different about you is what makes you unique . Accept the fact that you're a loud person , quiet person , tall , short , chubby , thin
And if you ever want to change anything about yourself , it should be because YOU want to NOT because someone told you to !
The more you practice to love your unique features, the more you start to love who you are .
Accepting yourself is you indirectly telling yourself that " I know I'm not perfect but I'm good enough "
Accepting yourself is you forgetting about the standards that people have and just letting yourself be .When you start accepting yourself slowly but surely, you'll realise the little things about yourself that you never noticed before , you'll begin to put more time , care and effort into yourself .
Remember: You are uniquely unique and differently different
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How To Value Yourself [ COMPLETE ]
Non-FictionThis book is directed towards those who struggle to value and love themselves or for those who want to value and love themselves more . Coming from someone who went through the same thing of no self love and no self value . It's to encourage those...