Divorcing A Toxic Family and Friends

Lies, Aunts, and a Nasty Sister

This book is a continuation, and will be added to in parts, people, wise up, family can be assholes, friends can be dangerous, when I say dangerous, I mean dangerous to your well-being and your health, it makes me sick how, people I have known has treated me, some all my life, in the case of family, or some a short while and some a long while, but do you ever really know who they are and what they are, some hide behind their masks, there masks of disloyalty and their dystopian beliefs , there one way thinking, that they are always right and they have to follow some sort of  order. Let's art with lies, lies that would make your head spin, around and around, like a Ferris wheel, a Ferris wheel that never stops, never stops to breath to see what chaos it is causing, the harm and the hurt. Recently someone commented, and this person is a troll, an evil bitch, a wannabe 50s, housewife stuck in a subculture of pinups and nastiness, this cunt had the nerves to say," I was mentally ill, and my sister said so, and my sister had paperwork and for years, " My sister is the one that is mentally ill, or seems to be with her lack of judgement with friends and people, I have caught her in so many lies it's not even funny, she will look away when you question her, and she never looks you in the face, or eyes, she will continue her caring for stupid friends, even when they fuck someone over, rather than her own sister, she will lie to cover up another lie and our mother lies with her, supporting her every decision even if it's the wrong one. I have dealt with personal issues, pain, hurt, loss of a son, and refusing to forgive jerks in my life, why should I, I have looked over things in the past, the lies and the deceit, I cannot no more, like my ex-sister-in-law lied to me back in 2013, I recently found out, they never allowed their daughter to stay in the old house, where some of my things were stored, the garage was never destroyed, the house was foreclosed on them by the mortgage company, talk about a lying bitch, then it was sold in 2014, the shape it was in and still sits that way is a rotten shape, graffiti all over the bedroom walls, just sad. Then she never told me an old friend past in 2013, the last time I talked to her, was in 2016 after questioning her when she was sending my stuff, and she again walked around the bush like her lying ass daughters, I got fed up with 2017 and told the little bitches off, I had had enough, it's pretty sad when I just now found out about Denny passing, fucking selfish bitches I tell yah, TOXIC.  

Then we have my aunts, let's go back, my one aunt, the last I saw her was in 1991, she died in 1992, I had my stuff stored on the left, of the shed and she had hers on the right, which wasn't much, things she gave me was in boxes among my stuff, a picture she had promised me, and gave to me when I saw her last, was missing when I came back in 1992 to bring the stuff to the state where I was living, since that time, I questioned the two aunts that were still living, they botch lied and said each of the other has it, well I had been at my one aunts often enough, I never saw it there, but of course it doesn't mean she didn't have to over at the house that was her boyfriend's mothers, or in storage, however when I had asked my younger aunt, before i stopped talking to her, in 2003, she changed the subject quickly, and refused to answer other than saying "oh I don't know it's probably at someone else's house. I know it's at my youngest aunt's house, just by the way certain individuals have acted. I know my mother and sister knows, just like a Asian trunk that was promised to me, I know my greedy sister has it. Toxic people are liars and thieves, and they protect each other, cover up for each other, and stick together like glue. My sister is nasty, and she is mean, the cruelty, is astounding, she has not called to even see how I have been, here it is a year and 2 months, but she can put up her phony platitudes and weird decor for Halloween, and in another week put her shrine up for day of the dead, why do that if you don't even or ever spent time with these people that are now dead, hell she doesn't  even remember the great grandmothers, and certainly other people that died recently she sure didn't spend time, in recent years, I mean give me a break, she goes overboard.  Her catholic mentally goes too far, and she doesn't even care to know the real truth, about religion, the church and what it was founded on, talk about ignorant. Her, my mother and my aunt think one way and one way only, that everything in the bible or bible talk, or TV evangelists is gospel, well it's not, again lies and corruption rule that. The real truth they will never find because they don't bother to seek it, and learn, the arrogance, controls their very thoughts.

The poisonous snakes, that are in reality are sisters-in-law, mothers in law, and even real aunts and uncles, mothers and fathers and sisters and brothers. Adders with mouths that lie, and cheat and gossip, they stick out their split forked tongues, they pretend to be family or friends, but in reality, they are nothing more than users, toxic as they come. Years of my tolerance, became hate, hate for those that hurt me, and disappointed me, beat me, and cheated me, so I act as if I never knew them, and now I write about them. Divorce can be blissful, and yes being alone with your past, is just the medicine one needs to heal, you swallow it fast, and let the bitterness fade into a sweet taste of victory. The people that you divorce from your life, were dark clouds hanging over your sunny disposition, and they only brought you down. It took me a long time to stop and realize that friends and family can be a toll on your soul and health. I was told by someone that I thought highly of, and he is now with his son, and suffering dementia, but I treasure his words, till this day, he said" keep pure at heart, and the goddess in your soul and God of heaven at your side and went on to say those that feel they can't get to you will eventually wither and go away, and when they feel they cannot get the best of you, they will back away. " "You have what they want, don't give in and let them take it." The words of E.F. will last forever in my ears. Others have thrown words out, but they meant nothing, they were empty, and meaningless. Some still try and throw words and platitudes out on social media, or blogs, but they are soulless and shallow, they are garbled, letters and phrases that are useless to the reader, or even the reader doesn't care. 

Nasty sisters come in droves, nasty friends even more so, I cannot tolerate sisters that take evil friends before their own family, and believe everything they say and praise what they do, they think it's cool, to take advantage of someone, or put them down, or even try to convince them they are crazy, well I am not crazy, never was, and never will be, because I am a strong person, and I take no crap. Nasty aunts and nasty uncles, I saw a lot growing up from my one aunt and uncle that were so selfish, they didn't care that they hurt others with their drinking, their violence, and erratic behavior, they were tools, they allowed the demon to enter into their lives, but the apples don't fall far the trees, and my sister has and does drink her problems away, but they're still their when the bottle is empty. This is toxic behavior I cannot have in my life; besides the fact my sister thinks she is privileged, and deserves that everyone agrees with her, the narcissist, that she is, always right and never wrong, and if you don't agree, then your insane, according to her book. I will never agree with her choices, her acceptance of social media, and intolerable lifestyles. She praises those aunts and uncles, and people, and never admits they were wrong, she makes excuses for them, she doesn't see what they were doing, we can love family, but it doesn't mean we have to like them, and sometimes we have to take a harder hand and divorce them.