Comforting words from a loved one makes you feel good and uplift you . When you tell someone about your pains and struggles and they comfort you and advice you it's a blessing. But sometimes you just want someone to just listen to you , tell them what's bothering you , open up and feel light without listening to someone's advices and comfort words. Sometimes you really wish that someone would tell you that it's okay your pain is valid and and let you cry and shed tears instead of telling you to be strong.You really want to let out all the pain and anger out without expecting lectures and advices in return . It's also a gift from God that He gave you people to advice you and comfort you by words but sometimes you are tired of being strong and listening to it.