When someone hurts us we tend to blame them . We say they did us bad . They shouldn't have done this or that .It hurts honestly because sometimes people really hurt you to the core and do you so bad . But we never think that it was our fault as well. Why did we allow them to hurt us ? Why did we give them the power to control our emotions ? Why did we let them so near to our heart ? We let people so close to our heart and let them hurt us over and over again to the point that make us emotionally drained .We are humans and definitely can't live alone but we shouldn't get dependant on someone to the point that they become our whole life and when they leave us we blame them. Why did we let ourselves become so much dependant in the first place ? We can save ourselves alot of misery and grief if we start spending time with our own selves and stop caring being so much emotionally available for someone that at the end their everything hurts us . Some people always do you bad no matter what but you should protect your own emotions and feelings.