Story time!! To be taken with a grain of salt and a sense of humor. Duh.
Stereotypes place ENFP's (especially female ones) in the happy-go-lucky category. They are full of rainbows and unicorns and sunshine and- let me just stop you right there...
We actually hate everybody. We imagine you all dying a horribly imaginative death for our own amusement at one point or another. Few people have not been mentally destroyed by an ENFP for something they've done/said. (I'm saying this because I have many ENFP friends who concur on this)
So what gets an ENFP stressed or frustrated? Personally...
1. Overbearing personalities that are SUPER HIGH INTENSITY ALL THE TIME BECAUSE LIFE WILL END IF EVERYTHING IS NOT DONE THEIR WAY EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY!!!
2. Pious people or people who go on power trips or those who belittle (whether consciously or unconsciously) your skills/talents/or just you. Forreal... Like I will imagine your face greeting a flying frying pan....
3. Not taking my advice.... After the millionth time and you are still complaining!
4. Here is a huge one for me that can literally make my brain short-circuit. RUDE BEHAVIOR AND WORDS!!!!!!!!!!!! If you are being heartless because you think it's funny or you think someone deserves it..... I will absolutely wish fire upon you and everything you have. Just stop being so ridiculously mean-spirited for NO reason!!!!!! Just stahp! Yes I'm looking at you, man who flipped me off when I was learning how to drive!
Now I know y'all don't want to hear me rant about the many pitfalls of humanity. So let me just say that many people do these things by mistake and I have no problem with forgiving someone for doing that. I just really hate when someone makes me resent them because they have made a habit of doing the aforementioned things.
I actually like liking people, okay?! But don't think that these behaviors are ok because they aren't.
ENFP's are known to internalize a lot of anger and frustration until one day they just detonate and all that pent up emotion goes flying everywhere and people tend to get caught in the crossfire.
So try not to be a bad person and I'm sure the ENFP's in your life will not kill you in their dreams.
