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Comming Out (Story)

This isn't an advise thing this is just my story on how I came out to my friend and my entire class. I will write a coming out help chapter later.
This is set when I thought I was bisexual. This is my bisexual coming out story, because that one was the funniest and you may like it more.

So after realising that both girls and guys where hot, I knew I had to come out to my friends to gain their support . At the time, I wasn't fully confident with my sexuality and I was scared of how people would react.

My friend (who doesn't go to my school and who I will call Chake for privacy and stuff) was the first one I came out to. I came out through some texts. I can't find them, but this is how I came out I think (if I remember well)

Me: Okay I'll tel u a secret if u tell me one
Chake: Nuu
Me: Pleease
Chake: I don't want tooooo
Me: okay I'll tell u anyway
Me: I'm bisexual
Me: I'm gonna delete that

(The reason I deleted the text saying I'm bisexual was because I was scared my parents may find that text and find out my sexuality. Continuing!)

Chake: Wait rly?
Me: Yeah I'm not pranking
Me: I don't really know if I am though... I'm just questioning...
Chake: u made a mistake
Me: what mistake?
Chake: u shouldn't have told me if u weren't comfortable with ur sexuality! Ur my buddy so I accept u no matter what.

(The actual text was longer and really nice however sadly I don't remember all of it!)

The rest I cannot remember, however I think you get it. She was really supportive and understanding of my sexuality!

She was so nice and supportive! I felt happy to talk about it with her and I was glad she understood.

After that I started coming out to some of my classmates. It wasn't anything memorable, I just kinda said and they were happy with it.

But then I did something incredibly stupid that'll stay with me forever.

Now, what you have to realise is I have an... Odd taste in humour. I find certain things funny that others may seem not funny at all.

So my teacher said something like "Imagine your part of the LGBT community."
I found it funny because I was part of the LGBT community so I started giggling. I thought she wouldn't notice.

Hahahaha!.... She noticed.

So she asked me why I was laughing and for some incredibly stupid reason that probably had something to do with not wanting to get in trouble, I told her the truth.

"Oh I find it funny because I am part of the LGBT community. I'm bisexual."

I hoped so much that nobody would hear me and just carry on. I was shaking. Everyone was silent.

And that's the story of how I came out to my entire class. After that, everyone spread the word and now everyone knows I'm not straight.

When I first realised I was pansexual and not bisexual, I kept it to myself.

Why? Because one of my other friends was Pansexual and I didn't want to seem like I was copying them.
Why did I do that I'm such a idiot

It was only when I started dating them I let everyone know I was pan.

I haven't come out to my parents. At all. Every time I think about doing so, my mind comes up with ridiculous scenarios that would never happen in real life. After a while, I decided to just leave it and let them figure it out or something. I prefer them not to know so nothing changes between us but hey, if they find out they find out and I can't change that.

So those are my coming out stories! Yay! I hope you liked them. I will post advise for coming out soon!