Coming Out?

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Right as of now... I am "coming out" as an aromantic asexual. Lemme break that down for ya. So aromantic means that I don't feel romantic desires and asexual means I don't feel sexual desires. So long story short, I don't see people the same way as everyone else. Everyone else is like "omg I want him to be my bf and we can kiss and cuddle and get married and have kids!" And then there's me like "yeah. He'd make a good friend, I guess." I don't see people as bfs or gfs, well, in that way. I see everyone as a friend or something like that. It's hard to explain in writing and pretty confusing. And let me set a few things straight: this is not an excuse for "not being ready for a relationship" or "I haven't found the right person yet". I just DONT see people in that way! And 2. Just because I don't see people as more than "friends or whatnot" doesn't mean I don't know when people are attractive or not. Like I know when someone has a good personality or is "attractive". This sexuality is not popular at all so if you want to ask/have any questions feel free to message me or comment and ask. I don't mind at all! I know that I'm not good at explaining things so this might be really bad and you might not get it at all, which is fine. Like I said, feel free to ask me anything (even if it's not about this). So yeah... Don't really know what to say after that. So uh... Baiiiii :P

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