Why Btvs Is Better Then Twilight

The Message

Here is a very important part of anything you watch, the message it carrys with it. So I will be telling you what the message is in Twilight and then in btvs. We will then compare those two.
. . . . . . . . . . Twilights message. . . . . . . . The message in Twilight is to have a boyfriend. That's it. Seriously though, what else could the message be? Let your boyfriend tell you what to do? The male is the leader in the relationship? These are all I'm getting from this movie. Let's break it down. Bella Swan can do nothing for herself. So she then finds a strong male to latch onto. This male is a total stalker who follows her watches her sleep and won't let her go anywhere without him. Later on he wants to get married to her, which she doesn't want. He then threatens her with not giving her what she wants if she doesn't marry. They get married go on a honeymoon and get pregnant. Maybe the message is to use protection. Anyway there is no good message in this movie.
. . . . . . . . . . . . . Btvs message. . . . . . . . . . The message in Buffy could be multiple things. Women are just as strong as men. Or you don't need a boyfriend to be happy. Let's run down what happens. Buffy is the slayer. Buffy fell in love with Angel. Angel is a vampire yet Buffy still loves him. Angel loses his soul and Buffy banishes him to hell for two hundred years. Angel comes back and they break it off. She continues on through high school the same as she was before. Go to college. Buffy meets Riley. He's a demon hunter. He loves her. She doesn't love him she only likes him. She and spike who have tried to kill each other fall in love. Spike sacrifices himself for buffy and the world. Buffy stays strong and keeps going. She is perfectly fine without a man.

Now let's compare the two messages:
You need a boyfriend or women are just as strong as men. Which one do you think is better? Obviously the one from btvs.