Trans Man Pros and Cons

Part Two: Lesbians and Gay Men.

Pro:
They can relate to the social difficulties you go through.
Con:
They usually seem to think we are just Next Level gay chicks.

Like to them we went straight from Bulbasaur to Venusaur, no joke, all of my conversations on it with lesbians usually go something like this:
Them- "So... You're like a lesbian then, you're just a stud?"
Me- " No, I'm just a dude with a vagina and some titties."
Them- "...............but you're still a lesbian right?
Me- " No, because a lesbian is a woman that likes women and I'm a guy who like men and women."
Them- "So you're bisexual then, you just dress like a stud?"
Me- " Yeah, I'm a bisexual dude."
Them- "But if you're bisexual then you're still a girl."

Honestly it's painful. And with gay guys some of them are really really accepting.... Unless you like one. If you like one their whole demeanor changes because I guess for them it's about the dick itself and not the fact that you identify as a man, and honestly it's not that big of a deal to me, seeing as I'm one of the bi guys who only gets crushed on straight guys I have no chance with but from most of the stories I've heard, the gay men pretty much wouldn't entertain the idea of a relationship unless the guy had bottom surgery. And honestly it's fine because that's their preference and no one can be mad at them for that, just try not to mention things that would likely cause dysphoria in the trans male because most of us like to forget about the lumps of tissue on our chest and our bottom region. Honestly never feel bad for telling how you feel rather than leading someone on. In my personal opinion, as long as you aren't rude about it when rejecting them and don't say something stupid like 'It's because you don't have a dick yet,' you are not in the wrong and do you boo boo.

Back to the serious stuff though, honestly most of the non accepting people I have met are gay men and lesbians and that is plain ridiculous to me. Especially since we have always fought for their rights.

Well I hope you enjoyed, love y'all, message me any questions you have or stories you have that you wanna share.
- Ty