Snowflakes

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No two humans are exactly alike. We are all are our own little special snowflake. Our own little frosted flake. No one will be 100% the same as the other, but they can be similar.

Asexuals and Aromantics !!1!!! !! ! ! One of my favorite topics to talk/write about. 

Not all Ace and Aros are created equal. We love, hate, like, enjoy, resent and tolerate different things. So just like a bunch of frosted flakes we're all different in what is included with our sexualities and romantic orientations. 

I'm going to make some kind of non bulleted list.

Some ace/aros want relationships and some don't. Whether they want to be private about things or out and open is all up to them
They can date a lot or they date a little. Boundaries perfered in the relationship by the ace/aro are specific to them. Some people want a lot more than others. That is true for about everyone, not just aces. Touching can be an issue or it may not matter at all. People are not asexual because they were harassed or abused sexualy, but that's always possible.

Point of the matter is, ask whoever you are with what things make them most comfortable. You would want to be comfortable yourself, wouldn't you?

Sorry for such a long wait,
-Spaghetti

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