So I decided to express what the actual fuck went down with guy number 3. Just over 2 years ago he and I had a fling going. Then one night he asked if we could be friends and I agreed. Pretty stupid I know but I didn't want to lose him, well that was until I started talking to this other guy. Guy 4. One night guy 4 went out with some of his friends and shit went down at the club. He got into a fight trying to protect his chick friends from some handsy guys and someone called the cops.
I was really starting to freak out and I told guy 3 about what had happened. Guy 3, being the dick he is, decided that instead of making me feel better like a good friend- he would use this perfect opportunity to take a shot at guy 4. He started ranting about how he shouldn't be in a club because he's only 17 and how he's so stupid for getting into fights etc. Guy 3 told me that guy 4 was only using me to get into my pants and that he didn't really care about me.
Like he did. Pissed me off. I told him that he was the exact same and if anything guy 4 cared more about me than he had. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again and processed to block and hate his guts forever.
Forever lasted until December 2 years later when he and I had both applied to work at a Christmas market. Guy 4 and I had ended our relationship which lasted over 15 months and I told him. He actually apologize for what he had said and somehow after all that time- I was just so exhausted of hating him. I dropped my guard and we actually hit it off again.
New Years rolled around a few days later and he joined me and some of my friends for a New Years hang out thing. We all drank and parties together. That's when it happened. For the first time in the 2 years of us knowing each other- he kissed me just after New Years. The kiss I had been waiting for. And how worth the wait it was. The night continued to be ever so perfect and before I blinked, it was over. That's when he started working at my school and it was over 7 months before we could actually reconnect the way we did on New Years. We hadn't seen each other that way in such a long time that I actually broke the bro code and hooked up with his best friend, who was my friend first just by the way. He got really mad at me and I had to explain myself and apologize. He forgave me And we reconnected about 4 times that same holiday ( just a hook up for those dirty minded freaks ). We kept it a secret and now I know why.
He had always said we couldn't date because of his job at my school as I've already told you. But he conveniently found out that because he wasn't involved with the high school, he could date them. So he started dating on of my friends. That shit didn't stay secret for long and when my best friend confronted him about it- he said it didn't work between us. Yet everyone who knows him can't even fathom that he is with the chick he is- it's too weird, almost wrong and I'm not the only one saying that. I'm happy for him, but I'm even happier for me because now I am completely over him and baby; it feels so good to be the one with good blood for a change.
