Love Sayings

The Job

The Job

""What, so you're saying that I can't get girls like that unless I have a nice job and make lots of money?""

"No, your brain jumps to that conclusion so you have an excuse to write off everyone who rejects you by thinking that they're just being shallow and selfish. I'm asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don't say that you're a nice guy -- that's the bare minimum. Pretty girls have guys being nice to them 36 times a day. 

""Well, I'm not like those other douchebags!""

"I'm sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don't have, then back the fuck away. There's a witty, handsome guy with a promising career ready to step in."

""So, what, you're saying that I should pick up a book on how to get girls?""

Only if step one in the book is "Start making yourself into the type of person girls want to be around."

"it's always "How can I get a job?" and not "How can I become the type of person employers want?" It's "How can I get pretty girls to like me?" instead of "How can I become the type of person that pretty girls like?""