Eto ang paulit-ulit na tanong na natatanggap ko. Nababago lang yung sentence construction pero yan talaga ang tanong na gusto nilang masagot. Kung nalilito ka, sige ita-try kong tulungan ka. Hindi ko sinasabing eksperto ako sa ganito, pero hayaan mong ipahayag ko ang aking opinyon kaugnay dito (sige, yung mas malalim na tagalog pa 😅)
So, una sa lahat, hindi porke mahal mo ang isang tao, reasonable na ang magpakatanga. Hindi porke binabalikan ka n'ya, oo ka na agad dyan. Pero may mga situations kase na yung break-up is temporary lang. Yung tipong kinailangan nyo lang talagang magbreak para may marealize ang bawat isa sa inyo. O para mas maging matatag yung relationship nyo. O para marealize niyong mahal nyo talaga ang isa't isa. Kung ano pa man ang dahilan, I am giving you some of the things you should ask yourself bago ka magdecide na makipagbalikan sa ex mo.
1. "What was the reason of the break up?"
Was it because of a small thing na pwede nyo naman mawork out together? Or was it because of a third party? Make sure that the relationship deserves a second chance. At kung cheating ang dahilan, 'wag nang bigyan ng second part.
2. "Have you guys solved the issues that caused the break up?"
Did you already forgive and forget? Kailangan niyo muna ayusin ang mga bagay na magulo bago niyo bigyan ng second chance yung kayo. Kase kung hindi, at kung hindi niyo itatry to deal with such issues, mauungkat at mauungkat pa din yan throughout the relationship.
3. "Do you both want to be together again?"
Gusto mo ba? Gusto ba niya? Do you still love each other? Do you still support each other? Do you help each other towards getting back together?
4. "Was there an improvement since the break up?"
Have you guys matured? Have you grown? Have you realized your mistakes? Does each of you admit the wrong things you've done?
It's hard to decide whether you should end a relationship, or not. Pero mas mahirap magdecide kung bibigyan ba ulit ng chance ang isang relasyon na natuldukan na before. No matter how one promises not to do the same mistakes anymore, you can never be sure kung anong naghihintay sa future eh. At the end of the day, we don't wanna get broken again. There are lots of things to consider before you get back together with your ex, pero make sure that if you decide, wala kang pagsisisihan sa huli.
So ang tanong, babalikan mo pa ba o hindi na?
-Admin Bee🐝
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