All of us can tell na mahirap talagang pumasok sa isang boy-boy or girl-girl relationship. Aside from the discrimination at hurtful words that you can get from the public, people would also assume na alam nila yung story mo. People tend to stereotype. They would think na lahat ng lesbian and gay relationships ay pare-pareho. You are subject to judgements, at ang pangit ng tingin nila sayo. Sarado ang utak nila sa explanations mo.
Kung isa ka sa mga nasa ganitong type ng relationship, I'm pretty sure you've heard a lot of unsolicited comments from people around you.
Here are some of the things you may have probably heard from close-minded people:
1. "Walang ibang kasariang ginawa ang Panginoon kundi BABAE at LALAKI lamang."
Oo, "BABAE at LALAKI" lamang ang mga kasarian na ginawa ng Panginoon, at naiintindihan kong nacoconfuse silang lahat kung bakit mayroong tulad natin. Well, alam niyo ba kung nasan kami sa ginawa ng Panginoon? Kami yung "at". Nasa gitna kami. ✌🏻😂
Kidding aside, let me just stress out that "being a lesbian, gay or bisexual isn't something that we chose for ourselves." This thing is natural. We are not committing sins for being who we are, for being true to ourselves. 😊 What I consider a sin is lying to one's self just to please others. (Talk about the 'honesty' and 'truth' that the bible teaches us.)
2. "Sinabi ng Diyos na humayo kayo at magparami, paano kayo magpaparami kung parehas kayo ng kasarian."
Basehan na ba ngayon ng love ang s*x at ang kakayahang gumawa ng baby? Ang babaw na ng TAO. Ang kitid. Ang tanga. When God said, "be fruitful and multiply", ibig sabihin ba nun magproduce ng babies? Does "being fruitful" actually talk about procreation, o tao na lang ang nagbigay ng ganung meaning?
Ang daming sinasabi ng mga tao, pero hindi naman nila alam ang story mo. Everyone's questioning our sexual orientation, did we ever question their being straight? We respect them, right? Don't US, people.
My girlfriend and I, we may not be the ideal couple for you. But you judging us and the way people like us love? Do you think that's what's ideal? That's what I think is against the teachings of the bible. If you hate us, I want you to know that the feeling is mutual. Well, my love for J is not too shallow to be stopped by youd words. We can build our world with the people who love us for who we are. We don't need you. God loves us.
For my baby, Iloveyou so much😘 Super daming reasons para mahalin ka. Ayokong ikwento at ipagyabang sa lahat kung anong nakita ko sayo. Ayokong sabihin kung anong mga bagay ang pinakaminahal ko sayo. Baka kasi pag nalaman nila, i-search ka pa nila at magkaroon din sila ng reason para mahalin ka. Ano ako, tanga? 😝
Guys, let's all be out and proud! 🌈
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Confessions of a Bisexual
RomansI'm not good with speaking. I ain't good with shouting about my feelings. I'm glad writing was invented for people who are good with putting up words but can't voice them out. This is my diary. I'm writing out what I feel because that's the easiest...
