Ang pagiging OPP o Over Protective Partner ay may limit din. Bawal to, Bawal yun.. etc. Di mo ba naiisip na minsan nakakasakal sa partner yung ganyan? May pupuntahan sya with friends pero hindi ka pumayag. Sa tingin mo anong mararamdaman nya?
Remember, hindi lang sayo umiikot ang mundo ng partner mo... Be Open-minded. Be mature enough to understand. Nanjan ang Studies/Work, Family, and Friends ng partner mo. Mahirap i-budget ang time para sa inyong lahat kaya kung alam mong hectic ang schedule nya pero may time pa rin sya sayo... Be thankful kaysa ang isukli mo sa kanya ay puro reklamo, kesyo ang konti ng time nya para sayo, bla bla. Stop it and think of him/her.
DON'T BE SELFISH. Bigyan mo din sya ng time para sa sarili nya. Isa sa major problems sa relasyon sy yung nakakasakal na partner. Let your partner live what he/she wants. I'm not saying na wag mong pagbawalan ang partner mo. What I'm trying to say is knowyour limit and don't be selfish. If he/she have a dream to be someone someday then support it. Wag mo hayaan ang sarili mo na makasira sa pangarap nya. Try to think of your partner...
kapag ginawa ko ba to, magiging masaya ba sya? kapag hindi ba ko pumayag, matutuwa kaya sya?
Something like that, isipin mo rin ang mararamdaman nya sa bawat gagawin mo, magiging reaksyon nya. Be Sensitive.
Kapag pumasok ka sa relasyon dapat handa ka sa lahat ng pagsubok. Hindi porket naging kayo na ng partner mo, Happy Ending na.. No it's not. Don't compare Real life to Fairytales cause it's not the same and it will never be. Masaya ang magkaroon ng partner lalo na kung mahal nyo ang isa't isa. Yung tipong walang What Ifs kasi alam nyong kaya nyo harapin lahat. But don't you ever dare to take someone for granted. No one deserves to be a rebound, played or used, and what so ever. Do your best to become a worthy partner.
"It's never about how many times you've been in relationship, it's about how you make each one worth it."
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SPACE:
What if your partner ask for 'Space'?
Edi bigyan ng rocketship! tss problema ba yun? space dw e.
For me, Space simply means 'wait ka lang ha! hahanap muna ako ng iba, kapag wala akong nakita na mas higit sayo... tayo ulit" Kalandian este Kalokohan diba? You're asking for space, why not break up? Para diretso na!
Ang karelasyon ay hindi isang laruan na iiwan mo kapag nagsawa ka na at kapag hindi ka nakahanap ng bago, e babalikan mo na lang ulit.
BINABASA MO ANG
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