Words From Heart ♥

Good or Bad

Sometimes you think that there are so many people out there who you thought to be as bad but instead they turn out such a kind hearted person , that you start wondering that you are lucky to have each one of them as  kind hearted and not jerks.

But let's face this bigger picture, every person on this planet has a good heart. Though it's not necessary that you'll get to see or know that they have, but they have. Every person be it your enemy or back stabbing friend, everyone has a good heart , that is good only for people they care about . And that's perfectly human.

A criminal , a thief , a thug , a jerk or even a murderer too has a good heart , which is good only for people they love, care about or are close to. It is not necessarily defined that every person who has a good heart is supposed to act nicely to every other person out there living.

We are humans .. we have got views, opinions , thinking. It depends on the person if he wants to act cold or warm towards someone. It doesn't perform as an measuring scale to judge someone if it is their own wish to act specifically towards someone .

For example if we look at some friend of our own who turned out to be as backstabbers or bad person... That doesn't mean that they aren't good with other person.

Also it never does mean that you are wrong for considering them bad  if they are good to others . A person turned out to be bad to you is indeed bad for you .. it doesn't mean that you are thinking about them wrongly. They did bad to you , then they of course are bad for you and you have the right to dislike them. It is absolutely natural for people to behave wrongly or coldly towards some people they don't like.

You don't have to feel.like that every person that did ill to you is good. They of course will be ,to some other person but that certainly doesn't justify the act they had towards you. So it is okay and entirely correct to not like people you don't want to or despise those who don't like you.

You live your life carrying your own perspective.. you are never obliged to think of a person from other person's perspective if they are bad to you and good to someone else.

The world works from it's own point of view, people act , behave and do things that suits them and their beliefs . So dislike people you want to.. like people you want to.. it's your life we better live it with our own point of view. That's how sometimes things are supposed to be.

Because if the person standing on the other side of the road says it is 6 that is written on the road that doesn't mean that the 9 you see from your perspective is wrong , neither does it makes the road answerable to it's biasness. Each one of you 3 are right on their own . Though it contradicts the other person and creates a conflict but it doesn't prove anyone more right or less wrong. Even if the other person thinks of you as a liar, for saying it as a 9 when to them it is 6, it doesn't make you one, right !? That's exactly how world and people work .

Not every time you are wrong or someone else is wrong . Sometimes you have to accept whats been presented to you and consider it true.
Also it doesn't mean that you have to think from other people's perspective to know that neither you are wrong nor they are, often it's okay to be a little selfish and believe things in front of you. This is human , this is natural.

Let's look at another example,  A murderer killed a person in order to save himself as he robs his house , so he can fill the starving stomachs of his family. As per the prespective of the murderer's family he is such a good hearted person for loving them so much and caring a lot. But as per the point of view of the killed person's wife he is a heartless monster who took the life outta her love. Now it is only justified for her to hate him so much and sue him for what he did. Though he indeed is a good person for his family but the wife of the dead isn't obliged to hate him less for the same. That's I wanna explain. If a person is good doesn't mean they have to be with you. Also it doesn't implies that you have to think any high of him for the bad he did. It is okay to carry your OWN point of view and define someone for you only.

Good and bad all depends on you. Not everytime you have to be or people have to be good. It is equally okay to be bad to some people or for them to be bad to you. We aren't saints or god. We are human. We got diff. views, thoughts, personalities and lives, so carry your own .

The above opinions are entirely mine, you are free to drop your own opinions about the same.

- love
Hitakshi ^-^