sometimes, you don't know what to do and you turn to other people for advice. maybe you're feeling down? and they tell you that it'll go away and you shouldn't worry about anything?
always remember you can do what you want to do. someone may say that you're too childish to lay up in bed and cry yourself to sleep. if you need it, then do it. someone may say that you should stay away from your phone and your laptop and all that is frying your brain. but if being on social media is like a safe haven to you, then go ahead. if it makes you feel better, then do it.
always remember that you need to put yourself before other peoples' words. yes, sticks and stones make break your bones and so may words, but sometimes even good advice doesn't work. people have different sensitivities and maybe eating a cookie can help one person, but if it doesn't help you, you do you. want to listen to screamo rock? do it. you can worry about your neighbors later. take care of yourself and don't worry about anyone else until after you're happy with who you are.
always remember that someone loves you. if they don't love you, they're honestly missing out. and if they don't love you now, there will be someone in the future that will love you and will never let you go.
always remember that it's ok to be sad and you don't have to pretend that you're happy. putting up a facade is more stressful than just showing your outright sadness, especially for people who are suffering from mental health issues.
always remember that you can talk and that people will listen to you. yeah, there are some despicable, selfish jerks, but there are tons more people who are willing to listen to you so go ahead and talk to them. you deserve to be heard, no matter what.
always remember that i love you.
[ i figured i should start with something like this. there are a lot of things i wish i could have said and it's annoying that i'm not good at getting my thoughts out properly because my head's a mess and honestly i don't know what i'm doing with my life but besides that i want everyone who reads and who will read this to know that you guys are special and amazing and beautiful and don't forget that.
- daze ]
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Random❝let your flowers bloom.❞ | just a collection of little things to lift you up on your bad and sad days, as well as rants and advice dealing with mental illnesses and self-care. (note: i am not a medical professional. i am giving advice based on whet...