Being Closer to God

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You Are Worthy

‘You must make yourself an empty cup in order to learn. One who thinks that he already already knows, cannot be taught anything new.’

Some lives are happy, some are sad. Do you want to live a happy life?

I’ll give keys to be happy and stories to add up on it and you’ll learned, you are worthy all along.

I believe that the message is the messenger

-          We make mistakes, a lot of mistakes since we were born and sometimes we just want to replay it back, ‘What if I can change it?’ ‘Will my life be better?’

First key for you to know you are worthy all along and help you to be free is acceptance.

Accept who you are, accept what you had done, accept the bad and good things you had done.

Acceptance was my biggest issue and I feel a lot of people is going through what I have been through too.

The question is, “What hinders or stops us from accepting ourselves?”

-          Regret and replay button

We regret everything we had done and we are always playing that replay button unconsciously. Replay, replay, replay and maybe we thought, at some point it will replay the other way we wanted but the answer is no, it’ll not change anymore. We must accept that.

-          Accepting Change

Change is continuous and as it says, ‘There is no constant, only constant change’ and we need to accept it.

Change occurs everyday, it’s like planting a seed. Everyday you water it, everyday you can see changes, it sprouts, it grows a stem, branches, leaves and then it’ll become a flower next.

Whatever problem that comes in our life, whatever change that occurs, we must ready for it and we must remember that behind every problem is a blessing.

-          Addictions are the reasons why we don’t like ourselves, we are ashamed of ourselves and we thought we are unworthy, that is where the unworthiness sprouts.

We must find our addiction and remove it.

What is an addiction?

It is an action that makes us happy for a while and then let us be depressed again and a constant reminder that we can’t change anything and we can’t change ourselves.

It is like a limo.

When you did something bad and you don’t like what you have done. Instead of indulging in your shame or just accept it, you’ll run like a criminal and there comes the limo to the rescue. You ride in it and after a while, it’ll stop and make you go out. When you get out of it, you’ll be in extreme sadness again. You just ran from your problem and then end up sitting beside the sidewalk.

I’m not talking about drug addicts, man-whores, porn addicts and alcoholic. There is a lot of addictions- workaholic, alcoholic, shopaholic, yeller, needler, tv addict, porn addict and many more. An addiction is something you do over excessively. It is something you do to forget a problem.

One king of addict is a Workaholic- these people work to keep themselves busy. Studying so much is also called workaholic too. They may forget the other important keys of life.

-          Balance

This is a 30 second speech from a former CEO of Coca Cola, Bryan Dyson.