People marry because they have to marry.
Sometimes girls are ridden by the excuse of marriage.
They adjust cause they are bound by responsibility and social rules.
Not everyone are truly happy.
I have grown up seeing my mother wholly single.
I was never taught of getting married, except that to stand on my own feet.
Marriage's decision was and is completely in my hand.
During teenage, when ever the topic of boys were discussed among friends, I stayed away from them. Later I had lot of friends after slowly removing my fear. They too are human beings, not aliens.
Father's friendship and not having even close cousins were the reasons.
I was seeking the friendship, being friendly, but I was greatly misunderstood.
Anyways, I am working in an environment, full of gents, so I have to be normal with them.
My friends thought how would I adjust in co-ed environment, but I stayed there as an alien.
But finally I thought of marriage!
Yes, not being grown up in a happily married family, and not seeing a happy marriage has affected me deeply.
I have seen my mom all alone struggling as a single parent. She has been full of tensions. But there is a happiness in being single.
For me marriage is a boundary which I respect. But I love the life of single hood more than it.
I respect marriage, but may be I can't love it.
I don't know whether one should force oneself to it?
Girls should be solely independent then only they can think marriage as a choice and marry according to their specifications and liking.
Ultimate destination of love is marriage. I agree to it. But many people are still scared of it.
In between the war of searching my father's friendship and my disinterest for marriage, I am confused. Finally will I end up ruining my life by forcing myself to marriage, by changing my basic interest or stay happy forever.
People think not getting married, is being insecure, weak and omen for society. They speak, " You have to get married, you are brought to this earth for so! "
As if that is the only work left.
I respect the thought, it is important, but one can't force to get married.
It will ruin two people's lives and even two families!
People can't link it to happiness, even after marriage people aren't happy.
Love marriages are ending in divorce in 6 or few months!
So not only me, few people on earth, who are really not interested in marriage, should think twice before taking any step towards it. Everyone is marrying, so should I. This thought can change one for a while not temporarily, not on long term.
So self studying is very important!
People depict marriage as a celebration! It changes life, but the basic you would be you. That's not going to change!
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The Story Of My Life
CasualeAn attempt to write an autobiography It's a dream of many people to write about one's own life, hardly few do or gets the chance. It is not to impress or wait to see how many would read it, but for oneself.
