The best way to do this is to love your ex lesser everyday.
But to do this you have to hate him in every way you can.
It's confusing right?
Let me explain this to you thoroughly.
What I want you to do is to contradict everything about your ex.
Everything he said, find a reason to contradict it.
But be fair enough to contradict only the things that are really contradictory.
Do not make up some stories or like falsify the things just for the sake of hating your ex.
Just don't forget the pain your ex have caused you all throughout your relationship.
To love your ex less is to hate your ex more.
But our goal is not to hate your ex.
Because Step Five is be indifferent towards your ex.
What is indifference?
Indifference is the opposite word for love.
I bet you thought that hate is the opposite for love.
If you hate the person, you still love that person because you still feel something for that person.
Diba may kasabihang "the more you hate the more you love".
To finally set yourself free from that love you have for your ex, you should be able to feel nothing for your ex.
It doesn't mean that it has to be now, but this is your goal in the end.
This is where you are when you can finally move on.
You can't succeed in your new relationship if you still have some feelings for your ex in your heart.
*ANO ANG ISTORYA KO?*
Remember in my previous chapters where I mentioned about the not deleting the text messages from my ex?
Eto yung purpose nya.
Everytime na mag-isa ako sa kwarto, binabasa ko yung mga text nya from the time pa na nagkakalabuan na kami.
Lalo na yung mga wrong-send nyang text sa akin kaya ako nagkainstinct na may iba ata.
Then kinokontra ko lahat ng mga pa-sweet nyang text sa akin.
Yung mga text na hindi daw nya ako niloloko, sabay sasabihin ko sa sarili ko na hindi nga kaya pala na-wrong send ka!
Yung mga text nya na ako lang daw talaga wala syang iba, sasabihin ko kaya pala may iba sya at wala na kami ngayon.
Ganun lang ritual ko halos everyday.
Then inalala ko lahat ng mga naging issue about girls, kung ilan yung mga naging babae na pinag-awayan namin or nahuli ko na may something.
Binilang ko.
Partida di pa kasama yung mga hindi ko pa sure at hindi pa alam pero abot langit na! (Exagge lang haha)
Hanggang sa naitatak ko na talaga sa sarili ko na ayoko na talaga sa kanya.
Hanggang sa nakalimutan ko na yung ritual kong pagbabasa ng mga text nya at dumating sa oras na nasabi kong wala ng silbi ang mga text nya so dinelete ko na lahat ng text nya.
Everything takes time ika nga.
Tiwala lang at malalagpasan mo din ito!
BINABASA MO ANG
Move on. Paano?
RomanceThis book is more on a collection of happenings and events, lessons that I learned, and the mistakes that I made that happened in my life right after I broke up with my ex. I wanted it to look like a series of steps on how to move on, pero kase as...
