Move on. Paano?

The Three Month Rule

Before you go back to the dating game, be sure to at least honor the three month rule.

This rule (in my own understanding) is more of a time allowance to stay single (literally) within three months after your break up.

Stay single.

No flings.

No dates.

But it's okay to be friends with you're opposite sex and hang out with them as long as both of you know that it's not a date.

Maybe you're wondering why should you wait for three months before you could go back to dating.

But for me, this is just.

Because after your break up, dating a new prospect is too soon.

Though no one can tell you when is the exact time to date again.

Wag ka kaseng atat.

You will look like desperada.

Baka isipin pinagseselos mo lang ex mo.

There's still so many things you must do aside from dating a new one.

Just because you broke up with your ex doesn't mean you have to look for someone better.

Instead, make yourself better.

If you want your next relationship to work, work on yourself first.

Sabi nga nila diba, if you want to find the right one, be the right one, make yourself the right one.

This is the time when you can focus on yourself.

Kilalanin mo ang sarili mo.

Marami kang pinagdaanan at pagdadaanan pa.

Ang unang-una na makakatulong sayo ay ang sarili mo.

Wag kang magmadali, okay?

*ANO ANG ISTORYA KO?*

Well, I did honor the three month rule.

Wala naman kase talaga sa isip ko nun na maghanap ng iba.

Na maghanap ng someone better na maipapamukha ko sa ex ko na I did the right decision.

Siguro kase I was too focused on moving on from him.

Not for someone else, but for myself.

Pero nung mga later months na eh excited na excited na ako mag three months!

Binibilang ko pa nga kung ilang days nalang before three months. Hahaha.

Sa tagal ko siguro na may boyfriend eh nasanay ako na may someone kaya eventually namiss ko yung feeling ng ganun.

To be honest, naeexcite na din talaga ako makipag date ulit.

Though wala naman talaga yon sa isip ko nung una kase nag-eenjoy naman ako kahit single ako.

Pero para akong nati-thrill kung sino yung next? Hahaha.

P.S.

The way I stated my 'istorya' is how I felt during that time.

Nung mga panahon before three months from break up.

Kase as much as possible I wanted to be with the same pace as you are now.

Mahigit isang taon na kase since the break up, madami akong pinagdaanan at natutunan.

Maraming nagbago - sa pananaw ko sa buhay, mga paniniwala.

And I would really love to share the things I learned to you as we go along the process.