Move on. Paano?

Ignorance Is Your New Bestfriend

What I mean by this chapter is IGNORE YOUR EX.

Since you have officially ended things between the two of you, there's no more reason for you to stay connected with your ex.

This is the ugly truth about moving on.

Your ex was indeed a part of your life.

The partner you thought you would have for life.

Someone you've made your plans in the future with.

The one you wanted to love for the rest of your life.

But all of these will boil down to the song "Now you're just somebody that I used to know."

'Now and then I think of the times you screwed me over.

But had me believing it was always something that I'd done.

But I don't wanna live that way.

Reading into every word you say.

You said that you could let it go.

But I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know.'

It hurts.

I know.

The idea of it alone is too painful.

Try to sing along or at least listen to the lyrics of that song.

It may sound too harsh.

But I think that's the best thing to do.

Remember, that the moment you broke up with your ex, this time you are doing things for yourself.

No one else but yourself.

Don't mind how your ex would feel about the things you would do.

'But you didn't have to cut me off

Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing

And I don't even need your love

But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough

And you didn't have to stoop so low

Have your friends collect your records and then change your number

I guess that I don't need that though

Now you're just somebody that I used to know'

Why the hell would your ex care?

I mean, your ex has no right to act such.

You know what I mean.

Right after the break up, I'm not telling you to do exactly as what the song said.

But I want you to control and discipline yourself to stop communicating with your ex.

Because Step Three is ignore your ex.

Shut down all the communication lines to him.

Like, ignore your ex when they text you. Don't you ever reply to their texts.

Ignore their calls. Don't dare to answer their calls.

Ignore their posts on facebook. Don't waste your time checking their facebook accounts, hitting the like button, or even comment bitterly whenever they post a picture with other people of their opposite sex.