Gaining Confidence

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having confidence isn't easy and it is something I struggle at times.

You can't just gain it overnight.

but remember that...baddies have confidence!

Confidence isn't thinking you are better than everyone...no! It's realizing you have no reason to compare to anyone else.

1. EMBRACE YOUR INSECURITIES

Yes, take a minute look in the mirror and find your insecurities. While in the mirror think about 3 things that are positive about the thing you are insecure about. Then embrace it! Embrace it to the fullest bby.

2. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS

It's hard I know but this is what is bringing your confidence down the most. You look at others and think damn I wish I was them. But have the mentality you want others to look at you like that because you are a baddie! If it helps unfollow people that lower your self-esteem so that they won't show up in your feed.

3. DO THINGS FOR YOU

Don't do things to please others. Don't try to fit in. Baddies are born to stand out, so do things that make you happy. If others don't like it fuck them boo.

4. BE AROUND POSTIVE PEOPLE

being around positive will provide positive energy around you.  This will give you good vibes and not any negativity that can make you not be yourself.

5. FIND THINGS YOU LIKE TO DO

if you really enjoy something you will be confident in that. for instance if you love to cook, you will put all your energy focus into cooking. you will enjoy it and have confidence in it.


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