Is it normal to have a crush on more then one person? How do you move on? If the person doesn't like you back/ you don't have a chance, how do you stop having feelings for them?
Is it normal to have a crush on more then one person?
Well first of All, Remember that having more then one crush is a normal thing!
You are perfectly ordinary for liking more then one person.
Gaining feelings for someone isn't a bad thing, you can't always control your thoughts and emotions. Remember that the way you feel about someone isn't your fault/ isn't always under your own control.
How do you move on?
Now this is a lot tougher, you first have to come to terms that you like this person, it's okay to like them.
Also saying that, it depends on how that person treats you, whether you feel safe with that person too. These are all underlying factors that you need to think about and take into consideration.
You also have no idea if that person likes you back, you could be missing out on something you didn't even know that could happen. If you trust these people/person I'd recommend telling them about you feelings, having certainty about the situation can help you move on in the long run instead of having these "What if...?" Questions running through your head.
If you feel like it isn't safe to tell this person that you like them then that's perfectly okay, your safety of your mental and physical wellbeing comes first before anyone else's.
Make sure this is the decision you want to take, have a good think about it since it'll take a lot of effort and it won't just happen with the snap of your fingers.
Distance yourself from this person, if you want to get over them, I'd recommend distancing yourself from them to gain a sense of control. Though, you don't need to distance yourself, it could help you get over the process at a quicker pace.
Practice self care, You come first! The best thing in this situation is to look after yourself, if you think all this isn't the best for you then you don't have to take the advice. Remember to drink water, have a shower at the very least once every second day (The goal is to get to having a shower Every day) and to go outside, get some air and simply stay in the sun, it's your choice what to do during that time!
Reader Advice:
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I hope this will help! Remember that you come first! Stay safe :3
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